How To Turn A Girl On Using Advanced Closing Tactics: 11 Insane Ways To Turn A Girl On Sexually

Advanced closing tactics: Ways to turn a girl on

She WANTS you to – Here’s how to turn a girl on properly.

Do you find it hard turning a girl on sexually?

Want to know some proven ways to turn a girl on without getting her blind drunk?

I’m talking to the point where she’ll be dry humping your leg, begging you to take her back to your place.

Yep these techniques are THAT good :)

Unfortunately, a lot of guys find it incredibly difficult to turn a woman on and that’s why they don’t get laid.

So I’m going to put a stop to that today, by showing you the best ways to turn a girl on sexually with both verbal and non-verbal techniques.

Oh and these have all been proven to work… Adam Lyons approved in fact, so you know they’ve been tested in-field a ridiculous amount of times! They will blow her mind.

Without further ado… let’s get grooving:

NOTE: Once you’ve turned her on enough to want to have sex, don’t disappoint her, otherwise you won’t get any repeat business. Become a master of the bedroom and give her orgasms she’s NEVER had before. Watch this video.

Verbally (Non-physical sexual escalation)

The first key to sexual escalation is verbal, you need to seduce her with your words… then you move onto the physical which will push things over the edge with her.

Talk about sex… doh!

Sex Talk

Talk About Sex

How can you expect a woman to think about having sex with you, if you don’t plant those thoughts in her mind? Well the simple answer is, she won’t.

Whilst you’re building rapport with her, you need to throw in a few thought provokers that help her think about you in the sack. Think of it as dirty talk.

Things like:

  • Hey look at the way that girl is dancing over there, you can totally tell she’d be terrible in bed by the way she’s moving.
  • I was reading something in the paper on the tube the other day which said that women who wear bright red lipstick or better at giving blowjobs than women who don’t (WARNING ON THIS ONE, IT’S ADVANCED)
  • I was talking to a girl “friend” the other day and she said that women relate dancing with a guy to sex… is that true?

Isolate the girl

If you want to seriously ramp up the sexual tension you need to isolate the girl, it’s the only way she won’t be distracted by her friends and you can work your magic. Lead the situation by taking her somewhere quiet and continue to build rapport further.

If you don’t know how to take her away from her friends, say something like:

  • Hey listen, I need to get a drink… come with me.
  • Man I’m starving, let’s go and get some food then we can come back before it closes
  • Come with me I need to show you something…

Slow down and talk sexy

If you want to be more seductive you have to be smooth with your words. By slowing down with the way you speak, pausing in between words and looking into her eyes while you do this, she will be eating out of your hands.

Think James Bond and you’ll be fine. It’s all about creating a fantasy.

Non-verbally (Physical sexual escalation)

So now we’ve covered the verbal side of sexual escalation, we’re now going to go over the physical side of things… this is where it really heats up.

Pull her into you

Women like a guy who is strong… so look into her eyes, put your hands around her waist and slowly pull her into you, so your pelvis is touching hers. This is very sexual and will setup a kiss perfectly.

I’d go as far to say that it’s the best way to turn a girl on, because it shows you’re a dominant male.

Use the “triangle gaze method”

Triangle gaze method

Do this every few minutes.

This is a proven technique that helps build sexual rapport and accelerates the chance of a kiss very quickly.

When you are looking at her, start from the left eye (hold for 3 seconds) then move to the right eye (hold for another 3 seconds) then look at her lips for a couple of seconds. Repeat this for a minute or two… you are basically planting the idea in her mind that you want to kiss her.

If she asks you why you keep looking at her lips, tell her the truth!

Cheek kiss test

Some guys just don’t know when they should be going in for a kiss, here’s a great way to tell if she’s ready.

Go in for a cheek kiss (with your hands holding each arm), but make sure it’s very close to her mouth, when you’re close see what her reaction is… does she move her head away as if to reject you or does she go in for a real kiss? If she moves away, go in for a second kiss but keep your hands holding her arms. Why you ask?

Simple, if you remove your hands from her arms when she moves her head away from the kiss, it sub-communicates that you have acknowledged she is rejecting your kiss. However if you leave your hands there and go in for a third kiss, making it obvious that you’re going for the cheek, it makes her look like the fool… clever huh?

Groom her

We’re all highly sexual animals at the end of the day, so grooming her will communicate that you “care” about the way she looks and her well being. Simply brushing her hair away from her face and placing it behind her ear is enough to escalate.

Kiss her forehead

Girls love it when guys kiss their forehead, it shows affection and no matter how hard a girl tries, she won’t be able to resist liking you that little bit more.

It’s what they see in the movies, so it’s subconsciously embedded in their mind and just always works, so use it.

Touch her waist/stomach

If a girl let’s you touch her waist and leave your hand there without pulling away… then you can kiss her. It’s a surefire sign my friend, go in for the kiss.

On the flip side, if she ever touches your stomach or chest, it means she wants to kiss you, guaranteed.

Place your hand on her face (optional)

Hand on face

This creates sexual tension and shows dominance.

This is quite a manly dominant thing to do, if you place both hands or one hand on her face, then go in for the kiss… there’s not much she will do to resist.

Seen as though women like to be lead sexually (well most do anyway) she will never pull away, she’ll just go with it.

Read her signs and act

If she’s looking at you (lingering) with intent, her pupils are dilated and she’s leaving her hand on your stomach or arm, it means she wants to kiss… so go for it.

The more you do this, the easier it will become because you’re going to be able to read the signs and instinctively act.

How to turn a girl on conclusion

If you can nail the verbal and non-verbal, you’ll be getting into her panties in no time. I can’t think of any other ways that would work better then the tips above, so use them wisely.

Want more techniques? Then watch this video and learn how to make her scream in bed and make her so sexually aroused when she’s around you, she won’t be able to keep her hands off you!

There are more ways to turn a girl on obviously, but the above techniques are what I use to escalate quickly. Also, there are many cute things to say to a girl, which can lead to her trusting you more, you need to take note of those.

What’s your favourite technique from above or one that you use on a regular basis to turn on a woman?

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  1. Freya langmaid says


  2. ImmortalDragon43 says

    Sometimes a girl just isn’t into you or is into someone else , or maybe doesn’t see you as an option due to social cues … I’ve learnt a little trick that has never failed to work for me. Alot of the girls that I meet are under the social cue of a hug , meaning that they greet people they know and people that are friends of friends or something similar with a hug… whenever this would occur i would immediately become otherwise incapable of greeting the girl , maybe I was “occupied” when she had arrived or when I had arrived…and so only a casual hello or hi was given … I would then wait until a moment arrived when said girl who didn’t hug me will be alone wherever we are , and I would go to the girl in question saying ,”You didn’t greet me properly” and when the girl went to hug me I put my hand behind her neck with about two fingers twirling in her hair and moved in to kiss her, with my hand firmly behind her neck she can’t pull out of the kiss and most girls seem shocked at first but thats what you want as you end the kiss after about 3 secs and walk away without a word, or maybe you can chuckle if you think she enjoyed it enough. Girls have become seriously interested in me after doing this even if they had no previous attraction or interest in me. How’s that for fifty shading the Fuck out of pua

  3. This is literally one of the dumbest things I’ve ever read. This is obviously written by a man experienced in the department of woman with no self respect, for he shows he his none for women and just assumes we like whatever women “like” in the movies is reality. I feel sorry for any female that ever has to be around or even look at someone who thinks like this. Absolute moron!

    • Agreed. If a man tried to make a move on me by insulting another woman, I would immediately write him off and tell all the females I know to stay away. This is completely degrading and disrespectful.

  4. I’m a girl myself. Guys, the best way to turn us on, is take us to a spot with the trees that have the lights wrapped up around them. Then, were in the mood, and ready to make out or whatever.

  5. Alecia Raynne says

    I think the best way to turn a girl on is to make her feel beautiful. Tell her how sexy she is, roam your eyes all over her body, stare right into her eyes. This is coming from a woman, and I swear it’s so effective <3

  6. I’m 13 and I like this girl from church. I think she might like me because when I approach her she stops her conversation with her friends and her friends sometimes glance back at me and giggle. Also she always looks straight into my eyes and makes long (but interesting) conversations. I wanna find out if she likes me but also I wanna go out with her and kiss her so bad. What should I do?

    • You need to grabb her ass and then look her in they eyes and go in for a short but soft kiss on the lips im 16 and i love it when my man does that to me, hope that helps man


      • Chris Harris says’re honestly an idiot. Sorry to be blunt, anyway. Jeff, allot of girls your age like the long game. This is probably really late. But take your time over a week or two maybe, and keep talking to her and make sure she’s interested. Once you’ve done all of this slowly start talking about dating with her. Once she feels comfortable talking to you most people get stuck and dont move forward, be the outlier, hug her really long when you go to leave, and still holding her in a hug look in her eyes and smile. Then say bye and walk away. Next time you two talk do the same thing but when you see her, and when looking into her eyes, smile and kiss her. A short kiss, not too short though. You’ll start to feel it get awkward before she does so pull away from it and before she has a chance to talk, hug her really tight and resume holding her, looking in her eyes. If you’ve made it this far, she likes you or is tolerant. Then confess how you feel and ask her on a date. She will probably love you instantly because of how gentle and caring you are. Thinking of you will make her heart melt.

    • Do not grab her ass! Think of something cool you want to go do, make REAL PLANS to go, then tell her about your plans. If she seems interested, tell her she can come along. If she like you she will want to join you. If she does not go with you, go anyway, you will have a fun experience to tell her about. Make sure you make it sound fun so she feels like she missed out. Rinse, repeat with another excursion some other cool place. If she never joins you, you still get to go to a bunch of cool places where you may end up meeting other girls who are more interested in you…

    • Force handcuff her and then pull out your dick and jam it in her mouth than slam her pussy wit your rock cock from the back out that big fat curvy plump ass

  7. Coming from a woman, the non-verbal dominance is to die for. How ever, almost all the verbal techniques are too cheesy other than thej question about women relating dancing with a guy to sex because we do. And that is the only line above that’s worked on me. I feel that if you are looking for a fling on a dating website, make sure that you both want a fling. Don’t lead her to think you are into who she is if you only want sex. Some women are looking for flings too. Just remember, with knowledge comes great responsibility. And just remember, if you were rreally into a woman and wanted her as a companion, you wouldn’t want her to lead you on and break your heart. So treat people as you wish to be treated. I’ve made a lot of mistakes I admit. I’ve also been hurt quite a bit. Just be responsible with your actions.

  8. Caitlyn mermaid says

    I’m a girl and I was just reading this because I missed clicked something and none of these things turn a girl on (atleast not me) what turns me on is playfully joking , being funny , confident and complimenting is a big turn on because it makes girls (or this may just be me) feel like that guy acctually cares and it is super creepy when a guy will grab a girls butt or boob or something and your most likely get punched in the face or kicked in the balls

  9. dyxusbhx says

    if she asks you why you look at her, say she is the most beautiful of what you can see around you, or that (when you’re watching a movie) she is nicer than the movie, if she’s only a bit comfortabele with you, she’ll definately want you to kiss her ;)

  10. I’m a woman, and you don’t need to isolate any woman. I’d get freaked out if you tried to get me isolated. That sounds more like a rape tactic.
    Anyway, just try not expecting a girl to drop her underwear for you whenever you want. Women aren’t animals. We’re people. We just have something different between our legs.
    Another thing: Don’t focus on being ‘dominant.’ Some women are dominant, and want submissive guys.
    Important: Make sure she’s not a lesbian. (Duh.)
    Even more important: If she’s intoxicated or doesn’t consent, leave her alone. Don’t be THAT guy.

  11. Thanks a lot for this article. It has already helped me with my confidence around women because I always have been afraid of rejection. I’m just wonder if you have any advice on how to approach women with the least amount of awkwardness as possible…. If you are able to give me some advice on this issue then my confidence with women would be even higher! Thanks:)

    • If the article really helped with your confidence around women, you would be talking to them already! I’ll tell you this, killer. Wherever you are, in ANY situation, use the coveted “5-second” rule. Meaning that if any woman in your presence looks at you for more than five seconds or five one-second increments, you should return her looks and start with that.

  12. I’m 13 and have a 13 year old girlfriend, everyday we kiss and hug, and when we hug her hands feel my back and my hands drift down towards her bottom, she doesn’t mind me feeling her there and I don’t mind her feeling me there, she also (rarely though) let’s me feel her breasts (with clothes on) , and I sometimes let her feel my penis, (with clothes on) , we get on fine, my advice is just be kind to then, treat then like their special, and always be there for them, then they will be for you!

    • U a sad boy

      • Saemol dude says

        Sounds confident to me, I mean come on… Sad? Really?? After all, I don’t recall having a touchy, feely girl like that at 13. And it proves there doesn’t have to be teen sex to be happy with a girl.

        • All of these seduction gurus just piss me off, sadly, u can’t get me to buy this crap, I knw how the female mind works, u can’t view wemen like this. Fact, every woman is diffrent. I wouldn’t advise anyone to use this B.S, compared to my techniques, yours is nowhere close.

  13. I pleasure my lady with a full body massage and when I get to her ”Heaven Spot’ I cover it with whipped cream then massage her there before…slowly…licking and sucking it off her, she gets so horny….

  14. Good tips.
    Pulling her closer and pelvis contact- *shivers*. I wish I had a man with me now.

  15. Hey Man. Great post. It’s great tactics to use at the right time (If you can figure out the right time). Thing i’d like to ask is if you’ve got some tips to saying the right thing at the right time to break awkward silences, when the guy runs out of things to say

  16. Socialkenny PUA says

    Slow down and talk sexy is my favorite. I do this a lot especially when I have the target up against the way sort of pressed against her caressing her cheeks. This is powerful.

  17. thank u thank u…. it really worked man love u

  18. Does this stuff work with women on women?

    • sociopath says

      i certainly hope so.

    • No. If a guy tried some of this stupid shit on me I’d walk away. Forcing your hands on her arms to kiss her cheek when she reject you? What the fuck is that? Do you not know what NO means? How absolutely pathetic. It’s sad. If you need to force yourself on a girl to get her to like you then you’re a pathetic little boy who needs to grow the fuck up. Disgusting.

      • haha you have some issues girl.

      • Mama calm down the tip is not for only u to read

      • sometimes when a girl says no it really means please take me. It depends on their tone and facial expression. I know that cos I got my gf to fool around today even though she said no, but she was smiling and she said it while laughing. Also, I used to be a girl. If girls always listened to me when I said no, I would’ve never had as much fun as I did ;)

    • Yes!!

    • No. This is based purely on a mating level, old-school animal instincts that tell a man and a woman to produce life. Woman in woman or man on man only copies the way that it is, because now we are hard-wired to recognize these steps as a universal law of attraction.

  19. Wow. I actually followed all of these steps and it worked!!! But what was most shocking for me was that her closest and best friend drew an interest in what I was doing to her and she kinda got jealous. So a day later (after I had slept with my beautiful angel) she came to me already aroused and ready for dirty fun! And my response – well that’s kinda personal….

    P.S. – Bird Bird BIRD is the Word!

    • Anneliese says

      Hey! That’s from Family Guy and part of a real song called “Surfin’ Bird” performed by the American surf rock band The Trashmen.

  20. Did pick up this cute girl once. We were sitting on some steps and she massaged my shoulders and said “You feel tense.” Then I said “A kiss would be nice.” Best 5 minute kiss ever!! Was married had to let her go. Damn!!!

  21. Good tips but i would never let a guy touch my face. I’m very insecure when it comes to my face/apperance.

  22. I think the most important part is these need to integrated within the context of your own persnaility. If I tried acting like a James bond it would come across as fake. Some of these other tips may work well for some, but not for others. Sme are so direct if delivery is done improperly you will look like a try hard type. The most important for me that always works is humor. Make her laugh naturally, throw in a few tasteful sex jokes/puns let her break the initially touch barrier and the rest will come naturally. If a girl is even mildly into you I doubt she would reject a kiss if you just balls out did it

  23. That last thing you said “you’ll be getting into her panties in no time.” couldn’t be more right! if it wasn’t for the condom she’d be pregnant.

  24. Works I did this and she gave me a blow

  25. Hey Gambler, does this stuff work on girls you meet at a department store, etc?
    If so, how do you approach them using your techniques?

  26. Technicality: For the Triangle Gaze Technique – do you start with her left eye (on your right when facing her) or her right eye (on your left when facing her). Or does it not matter?

    Great tips! Thanks Gambler :)

  27. Nice tips rich though It would be great if u could post some more stealth techniques things u can pull off during the day in front of her friends and get away with it


  28. I’m 16 and girls in my country are quite spoiltsports… Will these tactics work on them and plus all of the above techniques are too direct in my locality girls do not even kiss/hug or touch their besties in the friendzone lol so I would be a total stranger is it adivsable for me to try ?

  29. “If she’s looking at you (lingering) with intent, her pupils are dilated and she’s leaving her hand on your stomach or arm, it means she wants to kiss… so go for it.”

    Does this also apply if you’ve literally only just met, and you haven’t said a word to each other? I’ve been out in public and I’ve had women staring at me intently – if they obviously fancy you, would they like it if you just kiss them immediately or say “wanna f*ck?”! A lot of PUA stuff revolves around cold-approaching and building attraction with someone who isn’t straight away interested. I think there should be more stuff on hot-approaching.

  30. The playing field in the game of attracting not just women, but beautiful women is all fair play…at the same time it’s even more of an advantage to the guy that knows the REAL secret strategies on the way to turn a girl on no matter what she says, think, or does. Getting any women to sleep with you is one thing a lot of guys take pride on and with that being said most women know this so they already figured out that they’re the ones that are the trophy’s, a show-off to other guys as being the best catch. Likewise, she may oblige whatever advances the guy may presents her with and take the bait for the pleasure or to simply retain the him in the form of a relationship. It’s a cat and mouse game but at the same time it’s a situation were character, wits, and looks are the keys to being successful in attracting and seducing any women you desire.

  31. Wow! Some neat stuff Gambler… liked the “Triangle Gaze Method”.. never gave it an importance… wil do from now on.
    To be honest, never thought that women like the smooth and silky player

    P.S. Can you please write an article on how to seduce women from social sites like Facebook? You know, when you never met her before… or you just met her once and that was it…. would be a nice read :)

    • PUA Training says

      Hey Caesar, Thanks for the props! I have been thinking about writing something about picking girls on Facebook, so I’ll make sure I write about that in the near future.

      • Facebook and some of the free dating sites would be good.

      • To this I have had some success if I may. I have found with the personals ad.. keep in mind she already has got a checklist and it’s probably in hand when reading your 1st message to her. these are girls who don’t like being single (who does?) , they hate the singles thing, they are probably tired of drinking for looks (in other words she’s ok drinking till you look good enough to go home with). You need to convey you agree that the singles scene is diplorable. that you want to find ms. right instead. Now this one is hard… I find what works for me is getting her to forget you’re writing to her on a dating site. Write to her like she’s an old friend you hadn’t seen in years. 2nd include visual cues. example would be; “I was in San Diego this weekend , at the beach watching the sunset & I couldn’t help but have this overwhelming feeling of having you in my arms while I was watching this apricot color fade away… it was like… like coming home.” on the social network scene same would apply as above..only.. Clean House!! seriously if you’re interested in this girl make shure she doesn’t see the pic of you at the bachelor party making out with the one of the dancers. If you know she’s an animal lover. take down the pic of you at the rib cookoff chewing down on beef or pork rib. those are my thoughts anyone else?

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