She loves it!
Wouldn’t it be great if you could “train” your girl to give you more blowjobs and actually end up loving it?
That’s what I do.
You see most girls don’t actually like giving head, the just do it to make the guy happy. Which is fine I guess, but you don’t want to feel like you have to plead with her every time you have sex, just to get your winkle sucked.
It’s annoying.
So over the years, I’ve kinda fine tuned a step by step process (my secrets if you will) to getting a girl (any girl for that matter) to not only give you more blowjobs when you want them, but also enjoy doing it… so you both win.
Ok, enough talk… let’s get on with it:
QUICK NOTE: If you want to turn your girl into an absolute freak in the bedroom then you need to give her mind blowing orgasms. This will show you how.
My 8 secrets for more blowjobs…
1. Stay fresh at all times
When you get back home (her place or yours), go to the bathroom before anything gets started. Wash your little man in the sink. Get into the habit of doing this anytime sex might be in the offing. And if for any reason, he isn’t fresh, don’t let her give you a blowjob.
2. Some girls don’t understand that a BJ should be a part of foreplay
When you get her turned on, before sex, ask her to suck it a little bit. If she objects say “just for a few seconds”. Lots of girls are scared of you coming in their mouth or getting jaw ache but won’t object to a few seconds. You can even throw in that he is very clean.
3. When she is doing it, react strongly
Make more noise, grip the bed sheets, and say stuff…if that’s your thing. React MORE than during sex so she knows just how much you like it. Do this a few times, and she’ll be much more eager to do it. Same as how it turns us on much more when a girl reacts strongly during sex.
4. Quick, quick… QUICK!
From the BJ in foreplay, cut it short, literally 10-20 seconds Then have sex. Get into the habit and you’ll get a BJ every day, just as part of foreplay to sex. And sometimes even at the end of sex, if the sex gets too intense for her, or she just wants to do it for you.
5. She’ll be loving it because she knows you love it
She’ll start to be more proactive in giving them too. When she has her period, kiss her a little and turn her on. Put her hand on your winkle, then wait for her to go and do her thing. As usual, reward her by being really into it, and giving her a long happy hug afterwards.
6. Tell her how good she is at it
Say that if she ever wants to surprise you, or if she is ever feeling horny or wants sex over and over, that that’s the way to do it.
7. Let her have a little play
Let her play with him and become friends with him when he is soft and small. If she gives him a nickname and stuff, it all means she is becoming more comfortable and you’ll get even more BJs. Some girls are scared of penises, you want your girl to be best friends with yours.
8. Refine her technique (turn her pro)
If you need to refine her technique a bit, during the heat of the action you can say “yeah like that” or, god forbid, “watch the teeth”…but it’s always better to wait until she has done it 5-10 times before giving feedback. Try saying “see how deep you can take it” if you want some extra excitement.
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The very sad thing is that the great majority of women nowadays which is fact are going more for their own sex today. Go figure.
Best way to get a girl to enjoy giving you head is to give her good oral sex, once she realises how good that feels she is much more likely to respond but do not push her and be prepared to give good oral to her and get nothing in return sometimes, she will love you for it and be all the more keen to please you.
Dont be selfish
Johnmay never want sex again, my missus and I have not had sex for three or four years but we enjoy oral sex two or three times a week and BTW we are 68 and 62
Great article, Rich. There’s only one more I would add: use whipped cream, honey or another sweetener. She’ll find it kinky and fun and will associate the taste with your Johnson.
This really worked. I got her into it within seconds. We know do it once a day and both her and I love it. Guys, if you want a lot of BJ then as he said, “make her happy”
These are so true.
ESPECIALLY keeping it fresh down there. I mean, we all know that no guys wants to go down on a girl who’s smelling a little funky. Goes both ways!
I just want to say: neevvver put a girls hand on your crotch! If she wants to touch it, SHE WILL. If you put her hand there, she might feel pressured or annoyed.
P.s. If you want a lot of blowjobs, return the favor (If she likes it)! That’ll make her feel a lot better about giving blowjobs.
I agree keep it clean and fresh. And some girls like to get theirs as much as guys, so make sure you return the favor at all times. Unless she’s on the pad. Just let her know that later she’ll get hers, granted you may get an extra bj in when starting but that’s just how it is. The more the better. I also agree to saying things like “ OOH fuck your the Bomb” or “ This feel so fucking good omg” trust me turn her pro it works.