Mastery With Women and Dating
If you are seeking a specific sigma male definition, a sigma male is a male who is neither an alpha male (strong no-nonsense leaders) nor a beta male (those who are eager to follow the directions of the alpha males), and instead, march to the beat of their own drums.
10 things that all sigmas have.
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As a man, your biological aim in life is simple. Sleep with as many women as you can, thus spreading your seed and leaving a legacy far greater than any other man.
As a modern man, the biological aim is still essentially the same, expect now it’s more like… get laid, so you can brag about it to your friends, feel more like a man and live a more fulfilling life sexually. [Read more…]
Thumb power = Getting laid!
Wouldn’t it be cool if you could get a girl turned on so much within 20 minutes that she was basically pleading with you to let her come over so you could satisfy her?
Not only that, but you’re doing all this just by relaxing at home… chillin in your sweats AND you even have multiple girls on the go at the same time, all texting you…
…naked pics… things they want you to do to them.
Well let me tell you, this is totally possible when you know what to text a girl and I’ve got a bunch of sexting tips for guys that will make you a superstar texter within just 1 day. [Read more…]
Drive her freakin WILD!
Foreplay is important.
Like super important.
And it’s actually REALLY easy/fun once you 1) understand what foreplay tips work best and 2) like the girl you’re using your ninja foreplay skills on (as in she’s great in bed).
When it comes to foreplay there are a ton of things you can do and multiple areas you can delve into… for example: [Read more…]
While some men are happy to find ‘the one’ and settle down with a life of monogamy
stretching out before them, others remain resolute bachelors and delight in the thrill of
the chase. Some men take playing the field to a whole new level. The confidence and
magnetism of the men in this list has helped them seduce thousands of women into sharing
their bed. Of course, fame, power and riches can help things along quite a bit, too.
The following list is comprised of men who, if they kept track of their nocturnal conquests
with the traditional notches carved into their bed posts, would soon be sleeping amongst
matchwood.
Every fisherman exaggerates his catch, but even if these gents were dividing their tally by
five their scores would still be enviably substantial. They must be drinking a hell of a lot of
energy drinks.
Sexploits: 2,000 easy rides
Kim Basinger said of Nicholson: “He is crazy! I haven`t met anyone so obsessed with sex like
him!” The veteran actor would agree that that’s a fair summing up of his sexual proficiency.
When asked how many children he has fathered, he responded to the interviewer: “There
could be 9,000 for all I know – I used to live so freely. Women are never enough for me.
There were days when I used to go to bed with four or more. But none of them can take
away my freedom. Until the end of my days I’ll remain a bachelor!”
Nicholson’s youthful excesses are well documented. “I’ve slept with all women, I’ve tried
every single drug and all kinds of liquor!” he has said. The womanizing never got in the way
of his stellar Hollywood career, though, as he’s won 3 Oscars and been nominated 12 times.
The 73 year-old has admitted that he is starting to wind down now and feels a little
conspicuous hitting on young women. He also apparently only uses Viagra when he’s
with more than one lucky lady. And there are still quite a number of women queuing
up for Nicholson’s attentions: “Happily, when it comes to girls hitting on me, I’m not
undernourished.”
Sexploits: 2,000–5,000 bunnies bedded
Surely the most famous of today’s lady-killers, Playboy entrepreneur Hugh Hefner is
probably the most unsurprising entry in this list. An accurate figure for the number of his
sexual conquests is difficult to nail down, but estimates range from 2,000 to as much as
5,000, and not just women either – Hefner freely admits to having bisexual liaisons.
Hugh Hefner opened his account at an unexpectedly late age of 22, but since he launched
the first issue of Playboy in 1953, with Marilyn Monroe’s image gracing the front cover, he
hasn’t looked back.
Even today and well into his 80s, he is rumored to keep a bowl of Viagra next to his (well-
used) bed and even provide them for his guests. He still has orgies twice a week with various
playmates, too: “I have slept with thousands of women, and they all still like me.”
Sexploits: 3,000 señoritas serenaded and then some
Spanish crooner Julio Iglesias is known for his love of the ladies almost as much as his
romantic music. It is oft-reported that Iglesias has made sweet, sweet love to more than
3,000 swooning women, a figure that the singer himself doesn’t contradict: “That probably
was until 1976,” he said, “so they didn’t count the other women.”
The Iberian Romeo started early, too: “I love the girls like crazy, really, like crazy, since I was
4 years old.” Well, his dad was a gynecologist so it must run in family.
For Iglesias, sex is just as natural and commonplace as the red wine he loves: “I am intensely erotic.
For me, sex is as vital as sleep. I do it through desire, through necessity, but always
with joy. I am a lover for sure. I love to be loved.”
Sexploits: 4,000-5,000 porn partners poked
Over an amazingly successful career that has spanned decades, porn star Ron Jeremy has
sexed his way through thousands upon thousands of partners. The ‘hedgehog’ has starred
in more than 2,000 skin flicks and is quite possibly the most famous male porn star ever
to have thrust himself into the limelight. If there was ever to be a king of porn it would be
Jeremy, and if accounts of encounters with him are to be believed, he’s a rather nice fellow
to boot.
He makes up for his short stature, chubby physique and hirsute frame with a penis that
measures almost 10 inches long and a legendary sexual stamina (he once had sex with
fourteen different women in four hours). When asked about his and Gene Simmons’ (entry
number 6) conquests he said:
“We both say between four and five thousand, which is true. But he’s a rock star – they’re
doing him because they like him. They’re doing me because it’s a paycheck. Or, the other
line is, he gets girls that look like his Playboy playmate wife, and when I’m not making
movies, I get girls that look like Gene Simmons.”
Sexploits: 4,600 crazy, crazy nights
He’s sold over 100 million records, never been married, and counts Cher and Diana Ross
among his tally. He claims that none of his partners have ever complained, even when he
tells them he wants to bed their friends or relatives.
“I have not heard a complaint. That’s because I am straight with them. I don’t lie, like most
men do. I will tell a girl I want her and desire her, but I’ll tell her straight, ‘I want your sister
and your mommy as well’.”
It must be his famously prehensile tongue: “It’s ironic that I’m mostly known for my tongue
which is a hideous thing. But it’s every girl’s best friend – no batteries required.”
Rivaling Ron Jeremy, the KISS frontman alleges to have had fornicated with an estimated
4,600 women (many of those while he was with girlfriend Shannon Tweed, who doesn’t
seem to mind). Apart from an insatiable sexual appetite, Simmons has some home-grown
philosophy behind his enthusiasm for the ladies:
“The male species manufactures billions of sperm – it’s our duty to do what the Old
Testament says, which is ‘Spread Thy Seed’.
“The only problem with women is that they think all those sperm we make is just for them.
But the honest truth is it’s not. I would urge all guys to stop lying to women.”
Sexploits: 5,000 hot shots
You’d have thought that being an attractive Hollywood movie star with a famous family,
huge properties and a substantial bank balance would be sufficient to bring enough women
to any man’s door to satisfy his loins. But not Charlie Sheen. Sheen was famously named
in the Heidi Fleiss Hollywood prostitution scandal as one of her most regular clients. He
certainly has a soft-spot for the ladies – in fact it seems like he cannot get enough of them,
and his reputation as a serial philanderer seems well deserved. Aside from frequenting
ladies of the night, it is alleged that he heavily indulges in internet porn (according to ex-
wife Denise Richards – they split after he allegedly told her she was among the hottest 1,000
women he had slept with) and still manages to make headlines with his raucous hotel-based
antics.
Sexploits: 8,000 guests checked out (and more)
“Who is this Umberto Billo?” I hear you cry. Well, he is an Italian so mysterious it’s hard to
even track down a photograph of this elusive Casanova. Uniquely for this list he isn’t rich
or famous but simply a hotel porter at the Venetian Hotel in Las Vegas. Here’s what men’s
magazine Maxim had to say about him: “Despite lacking fame, wealth, and U.S. citizenship,
this Italian hotel porter insists he’s made around 8,000 women happy sometimes
entertaining four tourists a night. Umberto, whose talents came to worldwide attention
when he appeared on the British TV show Eurotrash, claims he inspired tremendous ‘brand
loyalty.’ An American businesswoman commented: “I must have spent thousands in the
hotel because of him!”
The man himself added, “They crossed oceans to see me.” But not everything was rosy
for the permanently-tired porter as he was sacked for being too tired to carry the guests’
luggage. He claimed that he also had ‘an insatiable wife.’ No wonder he was tired!
Sexploits: 12,000 bonnies banged
He’s bedded some of the most desirable women in Hollywood: Natalie Wood, Brigitte
Bardot, Jane Fonda, Joan Collins, Carly Simon (Beatty is alleged to partly be the subject of
Simon’s song You’re so Vain), Faye Dunaway, Leslie Caron, Candace Bergan, Isabelle Adjani,
Julie Christie and Madonna to name a handful. But that list is, ladies and gentlemen, merely
the tip of the iceberg.
In Peter Biskind’s biography of actor Warren Beatty, the acclaimed Hollywood writer
estimates that the famous lothario has achieved a jaw-dropping 12,775 sexual
conquests: “Using simple arithmetic… 12,775 women, give or take, a figure that does not
include daytime quickies, drive-bys, casual gropings, stolen kisses and so on.”
Elizabeth Taylor commented of Beatty’s performance between the sheets: “Out of 10, I’d
give him 15.” Joan Collins allegedly “stumbled exhausted out of bed after a steamy session
with Beatty exclaiming: “I don’t think I can last much longer. He never stops – it must be all
those vitamins he takes.”
Sexploits: 20,000 slam dunks
Wilt Chamberlain’s 1991 autobiography, A View from Above, goes some way to revealing
the extent of the basketball star’s sex drive. A cool 20,000 women shared Chamberlain’s
(extra long) bed at one time or another. As Seymour Goldberg puts it: “Some people collect
stamps; Wilt collected women.”
If Chamberlain did indeed bed that many lucky ladies, he certainly had the tool for the job.
Friends of the man asserted that he possessed an 11 inch member that would sometimes
pop out of his shorts during games.
Acknowledged as one of the greatest players in the history of the sport (he once scored 100
points in a single game), Chamberlain defended his astounding sexual statistics, saying that
he never bedded a married woman, and added: “I was just doing what was natural—chasing
good-looking ladies, whoever they were and wherever they were available”
Chamberlain died of congestive heart failure on October 12, 1999 in California.
Sexploits: 35,000 hot latinas
The ex-Cuban leader’s bedroom habits came to light in a 2008 documentary by Ian
Halperin. In it, a former official close to the Marxist politician claims that he has slept with
a staggering 35,000 women. Apparently, a ‘special security team’ would be assigned to
Havana’s beaches each day to ‘recruit’ the most attractive women.
“He slept with at least two women a day for more than four decades – one for lunch and
one for supper. Sometimes he even ordered one for breakfast.”
Castro had been in power since the 1959 overthrow of dictator Fulgencio Batista’s
government, only retiring in 2010 due to ill-health. Halperin’s source – a man named Ramon
– gives the reason for his longevity: “I don’t think he would have stayed on as long as he
did if not for all the incredible women he had access to as president.” Bedding incredible
women is certainly one of the better job bonuses.
Famously, the US has tried hard to get rid of him, but Castro has outlasted every president
that had him in their sights.
The bottom line is this, fame and fortune is unsurprisingly what a woman looks for in a man.
You should also read:
How to tell if a girl likes you for REAL.
Confused about whether the girl you’re interested in, likes you back? In this guide, I’m going to show you exactly how to tell if a girl likes you.
When it comes to dating, most men fear rejection.
But what if I told you, that from the very moment a girl meets you, she is secretly sending out signals that convey her interest level.
And by being able to notice these signals, you will have the instant power to know if she is interested in you.
How confident will you feel when you possess the skills to be able to know if she’s interested, before you even make a move, thus meaning you will never be rejected again?
And how much will your life change when you take hold of all the great opportunities with women that you are currently missing out on, just because you didn’t notice you had the opportunities, to begin with? [Read more…]
She WANTS you to – Here’s how to turn a girl on properly.
Do you find it hard turning a girl on sexually?
Want to know some proven ways to turn a girl on without getting her blind drunk?
I’m talking to the point where she’ll be dry humping your leg, begging you to take her back to your place.
Yep these techniques are THAT good :)
Unfortunately, a lot of guys find it incredibly difficult to turn a woman on and that’s why they don’t get laid. [Read more…]
Technology is supposed to make your life easier, right? But with online dating giving people the option to make snap-swiping decisions, you might not be having much luck finding a mate.
Could it be down to the color of your shirt in your profile picture?
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While the colors you wear won't help you score a second date (that's down to you and your personality), choosing the right color shirt can draw more women to you.
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How To Plan The Perfect First Date
In recent years, dating apps and social media have really taken off, completely transforming how we meet people—whether online or face-to-face. It’s wild to see how people have made connections, hooked up, and then got hitched for life even from across the seas.
But no matter how much dating and tech evolve, at the end of the day, people are just people. We crave fun, want to meet new folks and seek out new experiences. The essence of a first date is all about making that connection, learn about each other, and ideally — have a great time!
Pressure can be your enemy or your ally in trying to make a good impression. Not knowing how well you’ll vibe with your date can definitely bring on some nerves. But here’s the thing: you can flip that stress into a chance for fun and bonding. By adding a little creativity to your first date ideas, you not only ease the tension but also set the stage for memorable moments and deeper connections.
Setting Ground Rules For Your First Date:
Here are some helpful pointers to consider when planning or going on a first date. First and foremost, first dates are all about assessing compatibility, so it’s crucial to engage in something you truly enjoy. Your date should also feel relaxed and not overly formal.
Your classic options could be a happy hour at the local pub or a coffee meet-up at a cozy spot where you can talk still have their advantages. Overthinking a first date can sometimes distract you from its true purpose.
It’s not about impressing her with your impeccable knowledge of coffee, it’s all about getting to know one another.
Meeting up with a complete stranger requires some safety measures. Safety should always be your priority. Avoid any activities that might feel intimidating or stressful because there’s no need to show off nor is it necessary to step outside your comfort zone to prove you’re a great catch!
Going on a first date with someone you barely know can be a bit nerve-wracking. There’s no need to stress yourself out by planning an elaborate romantic dinner or a full day of activities. Just stick to something easy and casual. Meeting for coffee in a convenient spot is a great way to quickly figure out if you vibe with your date. If the chemistry is there, you can always extend it to lunch or dinner later, keeping things fun and spontaneous.
Feeling a little anxious on a first date is totally normal – it’s part of the excitement! But you want to avoid stressing out to the point where you’re flustered and your date feels awkward. Keep in mind that the more chill you are, the more at ease your date will feel too. A neat trick is to sit at an angle instead of directly across from them. This way, you can both relax a bit and enjoy some casual people-watching instead of feeling pressured to fill every silence.
Sure, your conversation might have kicked off on an app or website, but it shouldn’t stay there for too long. Texting can give you a glimpse of someone, but to really connect, you need to meet up in person. Things like facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice matter a lot. So don’t get stuck in a virtual chat – go out and meet the real person behind the screen!
You might wonder how to get ready for a first date. Just like you wouldn’t walk into a job interview without some prep, the same goes for a date! Think of some fun questions to ask and prepare for any questions that might come your way. Just don’t turn it into an interview, or it might get a bit awkward.
But first, it’s okay to tell your date that you’re a bit nervous! Being honest goes a long way. Good first-date questions are just as crucial as the answers you give. The key is to really listen and help your date feel at ease. Steer clear of touchy subjects like sex or finances. Questions about salary or the reasons behind a past breakup aren’t the best choices for a first date.
People are naturally drawn to those who exude confidence. Your body language can say a lot about you, so it’s important to project the right vibe. One way to boost your confidence is through ‘power posing’ before the date. Stand tall with your hands on your hips for a few minutes—think superhero stance—to trick your brain into feeling more self-assured. Just save that pose for before the date, or you might come off as a bit silly.
We all enjoy sharing our stories but don’t assume your date is as fascinated by you as you are by yourself. Focusing too much on your own experiences can send the wrong message. However, you also can’t just sit back and let your date do all the talking—that won’t work either. The key is to listen actively and engage thoughtfully. For example, if your date mentions spending three months in Japan, you could respond with, “That sounds amazing! What was it like?”
First impressions matter. It takes just a few seconds for someone to judge you based on how you look and act. A simple way to kick things off on the right foot is to flash a smile. Smiling is a trait of friendly people, shows you’re happy, and it’s something you can practice. The more you smile, the better you’ll feel, and that good energy will rub off on others too. It’s all about spreading those positive vibes!
Also, put some thought into your outfit. Dress nicely while keeping it true to your personal style, and make sure it fits the occasion. You wouldn’t show up to a coffee shop in a tux, but you also shouldn’t rock up to a fancy party in shorts and a tee.
Dating these days can feel like a race, and maybe it always has. We often find ourselves comparing our worth to those we think are ‘winning,’ leading us to mimic what others do instead of carving our own path.
But dating isn’t about who comes out on top. It’s about connecting with someone who makes you happy and whom you can bring joy to as well. This can only happen if you embrace who you are and let your true self shine.
What’s next after the first date? So, you felt that spark, the chat was easy, and you discovered tons of shared interests. Awesome! But what comes next? A great first date is only as good as what you do afterward, which means planning another hangout. You could suggest it right away, but it might be better to give them a little breathing room.
How to reach out after the first date?
Why not shoot them a quick message soon after to let them know you had a blast and propose a time and place for round two? Don’t expect them to reply instantly, and try not to come off as too eager. Keep in mind, if you approached your first date with a smile, some confidence, and a genuine interest in them, you’ve likely already set yourself apart from others.
The key takeaway is that success in dating, just like in life, isn’t just handed to you. If your first date didn’t go as planned, don’t let it get you down. Instead, take it as a learning opportunity, think outside the box, and come up with a new game plan. There are plenty of other options out there—think of it as a vast ocean full of possibilities.
