A Bunch Of PUA Text Openers You Can Use To Get Any Girl Interested And Eager To Text Back

Use these... get girls.

Use these… get girls.

So you got her number, texted her and… nothing.

What do you do if she stops responding to texts? And what the hell happened?

Erm… well there are two possible explanations for this… the first is that you didn’t build enough rapport/attraction with her and the second is that your opening text was so painfully boring that she just threw the phone out of the window in absolute disgust.

The bad news is that if you failed to build enough rapport with her and didn’t spike any attraction, the likelihood is the number she gave you is either a fake or she just won’t respond.

A popular topic that I’m seeing right now is “what type of PUA text openers” should you be using to not only grab a girls attention, but also intrigue her enough that she just HAS to respond to you.

QUICK NOTE: Want to take your PUA texting game to the next level? You should watch this short video.

What’s the aim of a “PUA text opener”?

The aim is to get her texting you back, whether it’s been awhile since you both last spoke OR you’ve just got the digits and you want to meet her again.

So today I’m going to cover two areas.

1. Some pre-written openers that have been proven to work… funny, teasers, shockers etc


2. What you should NEVER send to a girl as an opener

Sound good?

Cool, let’s move on then…

A bunch of PUA Text openers you can use

Shock and surprise

The aim of this text is to add a sense of urgency, so that she will text you back within minutes of receiving the text.

  • “Woah! You will never guess what just happened to me…“
  • “Haha… I’ve just seen the funniest thing ever…”
  • “Oh man, I’ve just experienced THE craziest thing…”


The aim of this text is to make her smile/laugh as soon as she reads the text, putting her in a good mood and associating that feeling to you.

  • “So I thought I just saw you, and went up to say hi, but it turned out it was this mexican girl”
  • “Knock knock…”
  • “Hey princess, I Just came back from the aquarium and I saw the cutest fish there…it reminded me of you”
  • “I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won’t let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape?”

Teasing/Cocky Funny

The aim of this text is to playfully tease the girl so that you can start to build sexual attraction/tension before meeting in person. You can also use these sweet texts on your girlfriend to keep her on her toes.

  • “How’s my favorite little brat doing?”
  • “I just made you open your phone for no reason…looks like I got you in check =]”
  • “Girls are gross… “

What you should never send to send to a girl as an opener

Here are some common text openers guys send that are cringe worthy and just won’t get you anywhere with her:

  • “Hey you! How’s it going? x”
  • “Whatsup little lady, been a while… how have you been? x”
  • “Yo, are you free this week to meetup?”
  • “Hey, was just thinking about you and thought I’d say hi x”
  • “Hey babe, send me something naughty” (Don’t ask for nudes)

Final thoughts…

Texting can be an art on it’s own (especially sexting), if you’re naturally witty and funny then you can get away with a lot in a text and quite easily setup a string of dates or even get the girl over to your place. I’ve done that myself.

But texting is nowhere near as important as the interaction itself, it’s just a handy tool you can use to keep the interaction going without actually being there.

So there you have it, a bunch of very cool PUA text openers. Have any of your own that you want to add? Leave a comment below dude…

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  1. I’ve known a girl I’ve been into for like 3and a half years I’m super into her and she knows that but I feel she’s not that into me cause she recently told me that I’ve got a competition with another guy she’ve known for the same period of time.. And it seems to me that the other dude is winning coz she treats me more like a friend than before..I think the other guy’s texting game is more solid than mine so what can I text her to spark Stronger emotions and get her on a date instantly? Thank you☺

  2.  I just made you open your phone for no reason…looks like I got you in check =] 
    How do you respond if she doesn’t get it or says “huh?”

  3. I just said ..”hey *her name* you took a long time to miss me Lol “. How’s that?

  4. Great text opens.definitely needed to refresh my memory a bit lol.

  5. On a general basis, this would work better on let’s say female friends, than the “Hey you! How’s it going? x” questions?
    Even if its for a friendly and interesting conversation, this works better… The way I see it, the deal is not alway to get laid, it is also important to connect and create a bond with others people in the society.

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