Women are pretty strange creatures. If the opportunity was there to have sex with her, and you didn’t take it, they lose interest. It makes you look weak if she’s opening herself up to you and vulnerable and wants you to be the man that you are. Most of the time, you only get one chance, and if you don’t take it you don’t get room to make up for it.

Leave her be for a bit. Then txt her u had a dream about her. Creates her intrest in the dream. Start off romanticly then gradually get dirty but the key is to use all of the feeling emotions. make sure when she asks u what it was about because I guarantee she will, mak make sure you space lol the conversation and explaining to her what the dream was about because this causes her to get excited and keeps your mind on you all day.

Her answer “I’ve been good, how are you” presumes that you asked her something along the lines of “how have you been?” Never ask that question. Instead start your conversation with something humorous.
I often say something like this: “I just saw in the news about this female fugitive. She broke out of prison and stole a bottle of single malt scotch from the warden’s office. They showed her photo and she looked just like you. Is it your evil twin? Or wait… Are you the evil one?”.
She will either say something witty back from which point you take the conversation busting her balls for either being a good or a bad girl, OR she wills say something dumb such as “haha”.
Then you can bust her balls for being unoriginal. Or she doesn’t reply, in which case you proceed with a diff phone number until she does. Sometimes she would ask you “so what are you up to anyway” kind of question after the initial flirtation, play along the frame that you already created in the previous messages.
If you run out of things to say, just stop replying. You can tell her at a later time, hours or even days later that something came up. Keep in mind that if she follows with more messages after you cut off the convo, each message is an IOI. Hope this helps ;)

ANyways this is a direct question to every brother that was in my shoes or been past it. what should i txt back to “Ive been good. How are you?”

One thing to point out is that not all women think the same way. Sure, they might have the same basic arc in their subconscious, but the way they reach full sexual attraction is different. In this way, consider that some girls will want to laugh, and you can end up throwing horrendously explicit stuff at them if they are genuinely humoured by you. Humorous normalises topics for many girls. This is even better if the girl is funny, because her jokes will follow the rules of what’s allowed, and eventually you’ll find they will venture into the same topics and use the similar words.

Another example of girls being different is in culture. I think the advice above is good for a westernised American girl, but rules of engagement might be different based on ethnicity. Some cultures like being questioned in small bites rather than being prompted to expound their dreams. Try getting dream out of a hot Japanese woman. It may come, but you’ll need to be banging her for a few months before she’s willing to be as open as the average western girl. Many Asian cultures have different approaches to communication, tending to be indirect, and requiring too much explanation might alienate them. If you get a girl like this, drop the big questions and ask yes/no questions and then simply ask her why or why not the other way. Validate any disagreement by explaining that “most people tend to” statements. In western culture, girls want to be different (especially the younger ones) but in Asia and many old cultures, the populus validates ideas. Why else do you think Japanese porn is so whacked? Girls just assume that it’s normal if they are in a sexual context. In public you’ll be lucky to get a kiss.

On that note, the advice about smiley faces is also culturally specific. Again, in Asia it’s totally fine to use them. You don’t look silly at all. Not using them makes you look like their dad.