Whether you like it or not, social media is a necessity for gaming these days. Women use it to vet potential men that they want to sleep with and they also like to post useless crap that nobody really cares about, just to get pointless likes from thirsty men… but that’s another story for another time.
Build a life where women find and contact YOU.
Regardless of how you feel about Instagram, it’s a platform that can take your sex life from nothing to… well, unlimited amounts of women on tap if you want. It just depends on how tight your IG game is.
Today, I want to show you EXACTLY how to go from not having a clue how to use IG to having an account that attracts women on a consistent basis, 24/7, sliding into your DM’s and wanting to meet when you touch down in their city.
Sounds a bit far fetched right?
I mean you’re not Dan Bilzerian… you can’t just rent a yacht, invite hoards of IG hoes, spray champagne on their tits and post it to your feed.
I agree. But you CAN strategically post photos and videos that will make you appear more attractive than you are, which intrigues women that you might not have even had a chance with had you not created an IG account.
I’m serious, this silly little photo app can get you access to models, actresses, socialites, girls next door and even celebrities. It’s that powerful.
Right, let’s get on with it.
Why you NEED to create an IG account if you want to get more lays
Super important these days dude.
I meet a lot of guys that either fall into one of two categories:
- Guy #1: They don’t have IG and don’t care about it. To them it’s a sh*tty little app that women use to post selfies and what they’re eating. To some extent I completely agree!
- Guy #2: They have IG and have done for some time. BUT… they suck at posting photos that create intrigue, attention, likes, etc. All they are concerned with is posting photos of them with friends in a bar or pub, random stuff that women don’t care about.
Don’t be these guys.
The reason you need Instagram to get laid is simple. It gives you access to women in every part of the world, without moving from your bed. Essentially it’s one of the best apps to get laid.
Once you have the right photos, videos and stories in place… it works for you. Women see that you have an interesting, exciting or adventurous life and they WANT IN!
You see what IG offers that most guys don’t take full advantage of is one of the most powerful forms of seduction…
Social proof.
The more followers, cool/interesting photos and videos, comments and likes you have, the more attractive you look.
Women notice this, they can’t help but feel attraction for a guy that has his sh*t together.
Think of IG like your online dating profile.
Now you might be thinking: “But, I already get laid without IG… so why do I need it?”.
Let me put it this way, would you rather talk to 100 women in 1 week in the hopes that you bang a handful of them or would you rather have 100 women contact you and you choose which ones you want to spend time with and eventually bang?
Obviously the latter right?
Well that’s what IG can offer. So stick with me, it’s going to get interesting from here out.
4 mistakes most men make with IG that you must avoid at all costs!
Avoid them if you want your account to be popular.
Before we get into the good stuff, I first want to cover the mistakes that most guys make, which kills their account and any attraction a woman could have for them.
#1 – Post stupid photos/videos with friends
What’s more intriguing to a girl… a guy looking out over at a sunset in a country she wants to visit like Italy OR a guy with his friends in the pub downing shots of tequila and falling over?
Yeah, you need to constantly think about how you’re looking to the world in your feed, because people judge, especially women. Don’t post something you think makes you look stupid, no matter how lighthearted you may think it is.
#2 – Use old, bad quality photos
Stop taking low lit selfies in your house or in a club and definitely don’t post old photos from years ago that are pixelated. This makes you look outdated, uninspiring and boring.
The aim is to use either a quality camera on your smartphone or ideally a DSLR camera. I know you might think this is overboard, but it’s your IG account, i.e your life being shown to the world. Taking it serious matters.
#3 – Don’t plan or use any techniques
Sporadic posting of random photos and videos is a bad way to go. If you post a selfie once a month, how do you think that’s going to help your profile? It won’t! You have to constantly be thinking about content that will help make you look better than the average guy.
Posting regularly will keep people engaged, using the right photos will make your account interesting, so more people will follow.
#4 – Not using hashtags, tagging or writing captions
A lot of guys use stupid captions that they think is funny in the moment, but in reality it just makes you look like a moron. Things like “One for the boys…. Oi oi!”. What is that? Useless!
You need to be using the captions to create the impression that you’re a cool guy, deep thinker, happy with life, living his dreams etc. It should encourage people to comment. Also using hashtags and tagging others is a great way to boost your profile visibility.
Ok, so now we have the bad stuff out of the way… let’s get onto creating the account.
Creating the account (username, bio and profile photo)
Takes less than 5 minutes.
When creating your account, it’s important to take the following into consideration:
- Your username
- Your bio
- Your profile photo
All three help each other, so you need to nail them all.
Your username
In most cases you just want to use your name. Do not use something childish like gambinolovetits96, it doesn’t look good. Go with your full name, keep it short and avoid too many dashes, periods or underscores.
Your bio
Keep this short and to the point. Don’t be vague or reveal your political or religious views in there. It will just put people off.
Saying something like “Love traveling, 32 countries and counting. Self employed, avid reader and sunset watcher”. This tells people that you’re adventurous, smart, ambitious and peaceful.
Your profile photo
Again, keep it simple. A shot of your face is best so that people can see it’s you when they search for your name in IG. A nice smile or looking away from the camera in a model-esq pose is perfect.
Right, so now you have your account setup, let’s talk about the type of content you need on your feed.
The 5 types of photos you should only post
Don’t post anything until you read this.
As I’ve already mentioned, posting the photos will bring you next to no results from the women you want. So you need to try and only post photos that convey the following:
- Adventure: You are a man that travels the world. Every girl wants to do this, so they will be jealous of you.
- Confidence: Knowing how to pose will convey confidence. You need to be comfortable in front of the camera in any situation.
- Style: Taking photos of you in cool casual clothes, a suit, dress shirt etc shows that you take pride in your appearance. This is crucial these days.
- Good genetics: You should be working hard on your physic too. There’s no need to look like The Rock, but having a well toned athletic body can do wonders.
Now that you know what needs to be conveyed you can work on posting the right photos. Here are some examples of the types of photos you should be posting:
Street shots – Perfect for fashion, traveling, showing people places they most likely will never see. These are the photos that you need to be posting most.
Social gathering – When you’re at a wedding, special event, cool and well known club/bar. Take the opportunity to get a good shot. Try not to post anything that looks try hard or setup. Needs to be natural.
Beach – If you have a good body, then you need to show it off in a cool way. No bathroom selfies. Natural shots of you looking away from the camera work best.
Sports – If you love sports, then you should show that you do. Anything works well with these types of photos, but action shots are best, like riding a jet ski, surfing, volleyball on the beach, rugby etc.
Animals – Be careful with this one. Taking a photo with the odd dog or cat is fine, but it can get cheesy. So be very sparing with these shots.
The absolute perfect time to post your photos or videos
Want more likes? Post them at THIS time!
The super boffins over at Sprout Social have been crunching numbers and to get the most amount of likes, comments and potential exposure for new followers you need to post at these times:
- Sunday: 5:00 p.m.
- Monday: 7:00 p.m. & 10:00 p.m.
- Tuesday: 3:00 a.m. & 10:00 p.m.
- Wednesday: 5:00 p.m.
- Thursday: 7:00 a.m. & 11:00 p.m.
- Friday: 1:00 a.m. & 8:00 p.m.
- Saturday: 12:00 a.m. & 2:00 a.m.
Now I wouldn’t be overly obsessed with posting at the right times, but if the research is there and proves these are the ideal time frames to increase your metrics, then I’d stick to what’s working.
Other than that, you should also test times yourself.
How to get 10+ new REAL followers every day
Fake followers won’t help.
Having an IG account with amazing photos isn’t enough, you need followers that interact with your content to make you seem more legit and to allow social proof to work for you.
When a girl you haven’t met before sees your follower count, she is immediately impressed. She can’t help it. It shows that you have something interesting to show and people are willing to follow you for it.
Here are some real techniques for getting followers:
- Daygame/night game – Start approaching women in coffee shops, the street, the park, clubs, bars and make it a point to add them on IG instead of getting their numbers. The combination of great photos and a growing following will intrigue her enough to reply to you and meet up. Aim to speak to to 1 or 2 new women per day.
- Tinder – Once you have great photos, using Tinder will be much more enjoyable and you won’t be settling for scraps like most guys do. Girls will automatically follow you and even sometimes message you on there.
- Follow, comment… unfollow technique – Start looking at profiles which are under 1k followers and like/comment on their best photos. They will return the follow in most cases and like your photos too. It’s reciprocal but it works. After awhile, you can unfollow them if they don’t post anything interesting.
- Buy shoutouts – Use a service like Shout Cart to buy shout outs from IG accounts which have a high follower count and can help drive followers back to your feed. Most people don’t do this, but it’s worth a try.
PRO TIP: Never ever buy followers. They are absolutely useless. Why? Because they are fake bots that only boost your numbers, they don’t actually like or comment on your photos. So it makes your account look shady. Not a good look.
Conclusion: What you need to do next…
Now you have a plan that you can execute daily to build up an IG account that will easily attract women. But you have to put in the work, just like with everything else in life.
Here’s what you need to do right now:
- Get 5-10 professional shots – Hire a photographer to follow you for a few days. Ask them to take candid shots of you just living your life. These will be the shots you can use on IG.
- Create an account – Get your account setup with the right username, bio and profile shot.
- Invite your friends/family – Connect with as many people as you can in your immediate circle and ask them to like/share and comment on your new photos to get things started.
- Post new photos regularly – It’s important to try and post at least 1 new photo per week to build momentum and keep the account growing.
- Build your following – Use the steps above to get new followers daily. If you follow all the steps and stick to them, you can get between 5 and 10 new followers every day for sure.
- Check for catfish warning signs – If you’re adding and DM-ing a girl you’ve not met in real life, then you need to make sure that the profile is legit.
Now go out there and build an IG account that girls will go crazy for!
Oh and don’t forget to use some dirty pickup lines when you message these girls.
Thanks for the article, excellent as usual. Totally agree with this “new” way of pick up, so powerful and unlimited.
Can you describe the procees after ?
– How do you find your potential target ? How do you find girls that live in your area ? Are you using hashtag ?
– Do you follow or not the girl you want to open ?
– What kind of first private message do you send ? Direct or indirect opener ? Do you have some example ?
Cheers Richard.