Women will flock…
So why power and influence?
Simple. Because they are both incredibly seductive. Two things that all of the famous womanizers in history had in common.
If you haven’t already, I highly suggest you read through my top list on PUA books which will get you started in the area of pickup and fine tuning your seduction skills.
However if you want things to happen naturally… I mean girls approaching you, asking for your number, opening you in clubs and bars, friending you on Facebook, sending you PM’s on Twitter etc… then you need to know how to master the power and influence part of game.
The books below are might highest recommendation for becoming a success with women the “natural way”. No lines, techniques, approaching or trickery. Women want men like this, the natural guy.
Just mental and psychological war fair against yourself, which will shape your beliefs into strong and independent values. These values will make you appear more attractive to women and people will want to be around you. You will make friends easier, seduction will just flow.
Let’s begin:
1. The 48 Laws of Power
An obvious choice for anyone wanting to learn about power, how to get it and how to have people respect you… fear you (and want to bang you?). Robert Greene is a masterful writer and this book was his first, that explains in detail how to become a more powerful person, but examining past and present leaders who have all been (and are) incredibly powerful.
2. No More Mr Nice Guy
Are you a people pleaser? Well you’re probably never going to get laid the way you want. You’ll be settling for scraps, because people who like to please others… get walked over, they are not respected and girls do not want to sleep with them. This book shows you how to stop seeking approval from others (especially women) and how to start embracing your masculine energy more.
3. The Selfish Gene
Let’s take it back to caveman times shall we. Evolution has taught us that men are attracted to health and beauty, while women are attracted to status. Regardless of the modern times we live in where women are becoming much more equal in today’s society, the hardwired attraction women have for powerful men will never go away. This book explains the science behind attraction and seduction and why you need to be an alpha… from the infamous author and atheist Richard Dawkins.
4. The Definitive Book of Body Language
Body language is so important for everything we do, but is even more important for power and influence over others. The way you carry yourself will reveal a lot about the type of man you are. Are you a strong and confident man? Then your body language will show this and people will respond to you differently. 55% of communication is non-verbal, so you can see why mastering body language is key.
Did you know that you are perceived differently based on how you dress?
5. The Prince
Niccolo Machiavelli was a political theorist, but he was also a very well respected and feared man. This book, about his life and strategies in business reveal how you can apply intelligent manoeuvres that heavily influence others around you and the control you have over them. Being in control of situations is a surefire way to show women that you mean business, it’s a very strong attraction motivator.
6. The 21 Indispensable Qualities of a Leader: Becoming the Person Others Will Want to Follow
Do you consider yourself a natural leader? If not, then you need to work on those skills as much as possible. People (especially women) follow unconsciously. Unless they consciously make themselves aware of the fact that they need to lead, they will always follow. Being a better leader will make you appear as though you are confident in your decisions. Women will respect this massively.
7. The Social Animal
We are all animals, forget the media, the miniscule nuances and the daily bullshit we all put up with. At the core, we are hunters, gathers and survivors. This book goes very deep into the psychological hardwired part of our brains and explains in detail why we do what we do on a fundamental level. It’s a book that you need to read and re-read several times over to really grasp the concepts.
8. Yes! (50 Scientifically Proven Ways to be Persuasive)
This book is more of a checklist, not an in-depth look at ways you can be more persuasive in your life and with women. Although the principles listed are most certainly scientifically proven, the list should serve as a reminder of what you need to do and should make you want to learn more about each point.
9. Brainfluence: 100 Ways to Persuade and Convince
An excellent book for understanding human psychology in chunks. Although there are a lot of example regarding business and marketing, they can heavily apply to your personal mindset with women and dating. Being a persuasive person is very powerful and being able to convince someone to do something can serve you greatly in the pursuit of power and influence.
10. Social Engineer: The Art of Human Hacking
If you’re a delicate reader, meaning you don’t like authors who propose a more aggressive approach to their books, this one might not be for you. The author uses words like “victims” and refers to certain situations as “attacks” or “exploits” which in reality happen all the time. Some very interesting concepts and valuable insights into social engineering though.
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