Comments on: From The Door To The Bedroom: How To Have Sex With A Girl Without With No Last Minute Resistance

By: Nicole

Nicole — Sat, 27 Jul 2013 05:46:28 +0000

PUA Training-

To debunk any myths about how we feel. When a girl says no, she’s not sure, etc, etc. She probably feels one or more of the following… 1. Scared 2. Wanting to wait but wanting feel like she needs your approval and you to like her (low self-esteem) 3. Wanting to wait and get to know you better, feel committed, safe and close to you (secure girl/woman and the most likely answer)

I’m not dissing the training. I’m in love with the fact that men are learning to do great things in bed with women they care about – Exciting! :) And we appreciate it.

Just feel sad in seeing some men may want to use this as a sport and devalue the whole act in order to win a game.

I hope you all find true love. And enjoy the sex both physically and spiritually with your new or future mate.

xo
Nicole

By: kayceee

kayceee — Sun, 07 Jul 2013 06:26:14 +0000

pls I have this girl who comes to my place often,we sit and chat in my bed but I dont know how to make the first move cos ‘am scared she might say no ‘cos she once told me she has a guy.pls any clue on how to make the first move without her saying no

By: Socialkenny the Cassanova

Socialkenny the Cassanova — Sat, 29 Jun 2013 12:12:56 +0000

Quick question Gambler, would these tips be applicable to a non-bedroom setting, as in f-closing somewhere like outdoors for instance, in a car, etc? What’s your take?

By: Tarsier

Tarsier — Thu, 27 Jun 2013 22:50:50 +0000

All this has worked for me in the past.
That is a great base for all guys, but at some point you can of course try new things. You can start to build a sexual tension (or at least attraction) during the evening/night. Then, at your doorstep, open the door, let her in first, and once both inside come slowly but confidently at her to kiss her. It is a gamble but when it works it leads to great sex. Come at her while maintaining eye contact, touch her with your hands before kissing her (try to make her lean against a wall if you can, she should like the movie-like situation), and quickly put a hand on/behind her neck in the same time you are about to kiss her. If this kiss works, after a while you can either play it slow (if she is still shy or unsure about having sex), go to the bedroom, and follow the steps in the video, or you can grab her leg, pull it firmly to your waist and kiss her against the wall. It will increase the sexual tension dramatically. Then after a while you can just go to the bedroom or to the couch and carry on. If at any time she shows you that she does not want you, or looks really afraid, just stop and try reassuring her on the fact you are playing. If it fails, then you lost your gamble! Say goodbye like a gentleman and pay her the cab.

By: Landlord

Landlord — Sat, 19 Jan 2013 02:49:43 +0000

Richard—

1. Is that your flat mate? Kudos to you for getting girls to sleep with you at all, with THAT wallpaper! ;>)

2. A ‘business suggestion’, feel free to tell me to piss off if you don’t like it.
You’re a PUA and you use baby-words like “Boob” and “thingy-bobber?”
And you giggle when you say that? Really?

A woman’s key parts are breasts and a vagina, aka pussy (or possibly “The Tube” if she’s from Essex)
A man’s part is a penis, aka dick, cock.
If it sounds too crude, ‘crotch’ works nicely for both man and woman.

By: Landlord

Landlord — Sat, 19 Jan 2013 02:38:46 +0000

In reply to PUA Training.

if by ‘affection’ you mean ‘kissing her ass’ stop that too…let her feel that you don’t give a damn, that you think she’s kind of a silly girl…but at the same time be flirty with her and drop sexual comments.

And for God sakes, do NOT reveal your feelings for her and expect her to reciprocate, unless you happen to be a character in a cheesy Rom-Com flick!

By the way—do realize there’s a huge chance of this all blowing up in your face in one way or another. For one—she’s your room mate now, If you crash/burn coming on to her its going to be awkward as well. On the other hand, she could fall for you —now you have a live-in girlfriend who shits in the same toilet as you….are you really ready for that?

By: Landlord

Landlord — Sat, 19 Jan 2013 02:33:23 +0000

In reply to PUA Training. Spot the Fuck on.

By: Rob

Rob — Sun, 13 Jan 2013 09:03:45 +0000

In reply to PUA Training. For this one you have to be lucky: You never know whether she lives alone, or with parents, or even how her possible flatmates are like. If you haven't probed for this (very subtle! as part of a normal conversation) early on, it gets awkward to have this conversation when you are both about to leave a club. What has worked for me during my time I would live outside of the city, I would go for the bullshit baffles brains here and just continue talking (non-sexual!) bullshit. Beware: your energy must be exactly right in order for her to genuinely believe that you (both) are just so into your story that you just happened to end up at her doorstep.

By: Rob

Rob — Sun, 13 Jan 2013 08:56:36 +0000

In reply to Bert. You could overcome this by instead of directly going down on her, to kiss her first around that area, you can notice from her reaction while kissing there if she feels comfortable with it or not..

By: Neil

Neil — Sat, 01 Dec 2012 04:41:10 +0000

In reply to marisa. how stupid do you feel? haha