{"id":6137,"date":"2013-12-17T14:35:16","date_gmt":"2013-12-17T14:35:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/?p=6137"},"modified":"2020-12-11T09:06:47","modified_gmt":"2020-12-11T09:06:47","slug":"how-to-ask-girls-on-a-date-through-texting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/how-to-ask-girls-on-a-date-through-texting\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Ask Girls On A Date Through Texting In 4 Steps"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/3SnLR12ETjQ\" width=\"630\" height=\"354\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><strong>Let me get something off my chest first&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I love texting&#8230; BUT you need to be tightening up other areas of your game before you focus on the text part. Like how solid the number is and whether the number was even real!<\/p>\n<p>Only worry about your text game when you have the <a title=\"The 4 Magical Ingredients Of Game And Why You Need To Find The Balance With Each One\" href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/4-seduction-styles-that-get-you-laid\" data-lasso-id=\"587\">fundamentals down<\/a>.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re getting a lot of flakes when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/how-to-text-a-girl-you-havent-seen-in-months\">texting girls<\/a> to arrange a date? Then STOP texting and go back to the basics first.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Quick Note:<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0If you want to become a text ninja, then I strongly suggest you check this\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/puatrkr.com\/mmessaging\" data-lasso-id=\"588\">video out<\/a><\/strong>. The video outlines a set of <span data-sheets-value=\"{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:&quot;text game rules&quot;}\" data-sheets-userformat=\"{&quot;2&quot;:1049089,&quot;3&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:0},&quot;12&quot;:0,&quot;23&quot;:2}\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/demand-rule-text-game\">text game rules<\/a> which you must follow to get the best results.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>Make the number solid<\/h2>\n<h3><strong>1. Talk about future meet ups<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Does she like fancy cocktails? Going to museums? Is she an active girl? Think of thinks you can do with each other that she\u2019s going to like. These will allow you to build a connection with her and reduce the chance of a future flake.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>2. Ask about her upcoming plans<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>If you meet her on the Sunday for example, casually ask her what she\u2019s doing that week. Is this week really busy for her (big project or exam etc)? Probably be not to ask her on a date mid week then.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>3. Arrange the date there and then<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Ask her what she\u2019s doing this week\u2026 if she says not very much, then you say \u201cwhy don\u2019t we meet on Thursday\u201d. Then give her a time frame of between like 7 or 8pm and say you\u2019ll <a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/sexting-tips-for-guys-dirty-texts-you-should-send-a-girl\">text her<\/a> in the afternoon to confirm. Give her your phone and get her number.<\/p>\n<p>Ok so now you know that the number is solid, because you\u2019ve done the ground work. Let\u2019s move onto some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/how-to-start-a-text-conversation-with-a-girl\">texting tips<\/a>, which will make her WANT to text you back and get her excited for you.<\/p>\n<h2>How To Ask Girls On A Date Through Texting (4 steps)<\/h2>\n<p><strong>NOTE:<\/strong> Every girl is different and the situation you\u2019re in will also change, so it\u2019s important to know that although these tips are very useful, they should be used as a rough framework and not the holy grail.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>1. Bar or club example<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>You met her in a bar or a club over the weekend and you then decide to text her on Sunday evening or Monday, with this:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHey it was good to meet you\u2026 how was the rest of your weekend?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is very simple, short and is different from other boring <a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/pua-text-game-how-to-text-a-girl\">texts girls<\/a> will get from guys. Plus it\u2019s open ended so she will of course text back.<\/p>\n<p>The idea behind this text is to gauge her response. Is it very warm or hot? Maybe it\u2019s very cold and not very responsive at all. Does she ask you questions also in the first response? After gauging her response move onto the appropriate step below.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>2. Responding to a \u201cpositive response\u201d from her<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Try and answer her question(s) in a funny way, touch on some points mentioned in her response and then lead onto asking her if she\u2019s free in the week, like Thursday for example. Move onto step 4 once you\u2019ve done this.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>3. Responding to a \u201ccold response\u201d from her<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t text her back for at least a week and then when you do, it\u2019s crucial that you re-engage and look for the point when she becomes more friendly.<\/p>\n<p>By leaving it a while, you will keep thinking about you and wondering why you didn\u2019t go for the date like other guys would at that point.<\/p>\n<p>Keep playing close attention to her reactions in the texts and only go for the date when she\u2019s responding positively.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>4. Texting her for the date<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Let\u2019s say, she\u2019s agreed to meet you. Now you need to be more specific and use something that I like using called \u201cillusory choice\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>You say something like this\u2026 <em>\u201cOk, so let\u2019s meet at (this place) when is good for you, 7 or 8pm?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re putting a question there and it\u2019s giving her the feeling of power over the situation.<\/p>\n<p>So that\u2019s it, you\u2019re all done! good luck guys. There are tons of <a title=\"What To Text A Girl To Get Her Turned On And Wanting To Meet You\" href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/what-to-text-a-girl\" data-lasso-id=\"589\">things you can text girls<\/a>, but seriously it&#8217;s nowhere near as important as speaking to her on the phone and having your rapport building skills in place.<\/p>\n<p>Oh and if you arrange a date by text and a <span data-sheets-value=\"{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:&quot;girl leaves you on read&quot;}\" data-sheets-userformat=\"{&quot;2&quot;:1049089,&quot;3&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:0},&quot;12&quot;:0,&quot;23&quot;:2}\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/10-possible-reasons-why-she-didnt-text-you-back\">girl leaves you on read<\/a> for several days. It&#8217;s game over. You either didn&#8217;t build enough attraction when you met her or you didn&#8217;t use one of my killer <a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/a-bunch-of-pua-text-openers\">PUA text game openers<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>You should read these:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/how-to-get-a-girl-to-send-nudes\">How to Nab Sexy Nude Selfies From Girls<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/things-you-should-never-text-an-ex-girlfriend\">13 Things You Should Never Text An Ex Girlfriend<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/top-10-naughty-text-messages-you-should-send-to-your-girlfriend\">Top 10 Sexting Messages To Send To Your Girlfriend<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let me get something off my chest first&#8230; I love texting&#8230; BUT you need to be tightening up other areas of your game before you focus on the text part. Like how solid the number is and whether the number was even real! Only worry about your text game when you have the fundamentals down.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":48,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v22.3 (Yoast SEO v22.6) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How To Ask Girls On A Date Through Texting In 4 Steps<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Getting more flakes than you can handle? Well you&#039;re obviously not doing something right. 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