{"id":5742,"date":"2013-02-20T09:20:53","date_gmt":"2013-02-20T09:20:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/?p=5742"},"modified":"2021-07-28T08:30:49","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T08:30:49","slug":"how-do-i-get-out-of-the-friend-zone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/how-do-i-get-out-of-the-friend-zone\/","title":{"rendered":"The Friend Zone Destroyer: How Do I Get Out Of The Friend Zone?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CC_7NfZ1-Js?rel=0\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>I have no idea why, but I\u2019m getting this question more and more these days&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>How do I get out of the friend zone?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Guys are for some reason falling into the friend zone trap and getting stuck&#8230; just watching the girl they want most go out with other guys.<\/p>\n<p>Well today this is going to stop my man! I\u2019m going to show you what I like to call \u201cThe Friend Zone Destroyer\u201d.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Once you use these tips on the girl who has you firmly in the friend zone, you will be able to bust out of that bitch super fast.<\/p>\n<p>Are you ready? Cool, let\u2019s do this.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>By the way:<\/strong><\/span> If you use my Stealth Attraction techniques which you can see <a href=\"http:\/\/puatrkr.com\/obsession-method\" data-lasso-id=\"501\"><strong>right here<\/strong><\/a>&#8230; you will NEVER be in the friend zone, ever!<\/p>\n<h2>Understand the psychology behind it<\/h2>\n<p>In order to get out of the friend zone, you need to first work out why she might be doing it and this will give you a better understanding of how you can stop it from happening any further.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">If she has a boyfriend (or even if she doesn\u2019t) she still likes the comfort of having a guy like you pandering to her. You buy her drinks, call her and listen to her moaning about stuff for hours, buy her dinner&#8230; and give her the attention she craves.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">She doesn\u2019t want to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/why-does-my-girlfriend-just-want-to-be-friends\">start a relationship<\/a> with you mainly because it could ruin the relationship she has going with you. The easy ride.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Break the pattern<\/h2>\n<p>By breaking the current pattern, you will kickstart feelings she wouldn\u2019t have felt for you before (the same feelings you have for her)&#8230; but you need to cool throughout the process. Don\u2019t turn into that needy little bitch that she uses.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">When on the phone, make an excuse to end the conversation mid flow. Like \u201cHey listen, I need to go I\u2019m cooking at the minute and something is burning, I\u2019ll speak to you in a bit\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">When you\u2019re busy, don\u2019t meet her or make special plans for her. Treat her like a normal friend \u201cHey, yeah sorry I have plans already&#8230; maybe another time though\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">When you hug her, hug her like a friend would&#8230; no creepy needy stuff. Pat her on the back, hug her with one arm and throw her off the scent.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">Make remarks about other girls when you\u2019re with her. \u201cOh she\u2019s hot\u201d and \u201cDo you have any hot friends you can introduce me too?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\">Talk about dates you\u2019ve been on with other girls (don\u2019t rub it in too much though).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Show her you\u2019re a high value male<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Be the guy that\u2019s in demand<\/strong> &#8211; When she tries her usual tricks, block her and make her think that you\u2019re a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/how-to-build-a-social-circle\">high value<\/a> in demand man. This will make her want to chase you and work for you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Stop being predictable<\/strong> &#8211; If you speak at a certain place&#8230; stop going there. If she calls you at a certain time, don\u2019t answer the phone. Don\u2019t reply to texts too quickly, just make her feel like you\u2019re cool without her and have a life.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Getting her interested in you<\/h2>\n<p>Now you\u2019ve thrown her off the scent, you want to spark some interest and make her think about what it would be like if she dated you.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Look for signs of attraction<\/strong> &#8211; Is she asking you whether she looks good in a dress? Is she touching you a lot more than she used to? Is she flirting? These are all signs that she\u2019s starting to like you more than a friend.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Meetup with her<\/strong> &#8211; Now that she\u2019s interested you need to create a situation where you\u2019re both alone having a drink together so you can escalate physically, but in a playful way.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Kiss her<\/strong> &#8211; Mid-way through the interaction, give her a quick kiss on the lips (hold her face and do it in a sensual way) then say \u201cHold a minute, we shouldn\u2019t be doing this&#8230; this is so bad\u201d. Then kiss her again and say the same thing. She will begin to justify why it\u2019s a good thing which is what you want.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So there you have it, my friend zone destroyer technique. Never again will you be in the friend zone!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>You should also read:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/dating-tips-for-men-after-covid-19\">7 Effective Dating Tips for Men in a Post-COVID World<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/10-reasons-why-long-distance-relationships-dont-work\">10 Reasons Why Long Distance Relationships Don&#8217;t Work And Will Never Work<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/how-to-break-up-with-a-girl\">How To Break Up With A Girl Quickly And Painlessly<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/steps-to-dating-younger-women-who-are-out-of-your-league\">3 Steps To Dating Younger Women<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/blog\/warning-signs-that-your-girlfriend-is-about-to-leave-you\">Warning Signs That Your Girlfriend Is About To Leave<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/how-to-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back\">How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have no idea why, but I\u2019m getting this question more and more these days&#8230; How do I get out of the friend zone? 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