{"id":5660,"date":"2013-01-17T21:42:32","date_gmt":"2013-01-17T21:42:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/?p=5660"},"modified":"2020-12-08T06:07:06","modified_gmt":"2020-12-08T06:07:06","slug":"last-minute-objections-anti-slut-defence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/last-minute-objections-anti-slut-defence\/","title":{"rendered":"Last Minute Resistance Guide: 5 Things Women Say Before Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever experienced last minute resistance<\/a> before?<\/strong><\/p>\n

No? Ok, well let me explain.<\/p>\n

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How to deal with last minute resistance like a pro.<\/p><\/div>\n

Let\u2019s say you\u2019re at a bar and you\u2019re talking to a hottie<\/a>. After about 30 minutes of flirting you decide to escalate so that you can take her home.<\/p>\n

As the conversation starts to heat up both physically and verbally, she drops a bombshell…<\/p>\n

\u201cWoah their big boy… I\u2019m not that type of girl… if you want a slut to just sleep with you should find another girl\u201d<\/p>\n

BAM!<\/p>\n

WTF was that?!!<\/p>\n

That my friend is her anti-slut defence (ASD)<\/em> slapping you across the moosh.<\/p>\n

Now what the hell do you do now?<\/p>\n

Well there are several things you can do… so let me first explain what ASD really is and then I\u2019ll get into the grit of it.<\/p>\n

What is last minute resistance and why does it happen?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Basically it\u2019s when a girl you\u2019re hitting on puts up a barrier<\/a> and stops things from going any further (i.e the bedroom for sex) because she doesn\u2019t want to be seen as a slut by you or her friends.<\/p>\n

So she gets defensive and blurts out standard lines to throw you off the scent and to let you know that she needs more work before you get her in the sack.<\/p>\n

Essentially you need to build more rapport<\/a> and gain her trust before laying down the sexual escalation and ramping up the heat again.<\/p>\n

5 common things women will say… and how to get around them<\/strong><\/h2>\n

So now you know what it is, let\u2019s give you a few examples of anti-slut defence<\/a> things women will churn out and comebacks you can say to get out of it:<\/p>\n

1. I\u2019m not that type of girl<\/strong><\/p>\n

HER:<\/strong> Hey, I\u2019m not that type of girl…
\nYOU:<\/strong> And I\u2019m not that type of guy, so what are you getting at missy (raising one eyebrow)<\/p>\n

2. You just want me for sex<\/strong><\/p>\n

HER:<\/strong> Hang on, you just want me for sex…
\nYOU:<\/strong> I never use girls for sex… in fact girls often use me for sex which is not cool. I hope you\u2019re not that type of girl are you?? (Looking at her with a slight raised smile)<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re a bad guy<\/strong><\/p>\n

HER:<\/strong> Woah, you\u2019re a bad guy I can tell…
\nYOU:<\/strong> And you want me to believe you\u2019re a good girl? With those eyes and that dress… I\u2019m a good guy when I need to be ;)<\/p>\n

4. I have a boyfriend, so…<\/strong><\/p>\n

HER:<\/strong> …I have a boyfriend sorry…
\nYOU:<\/strong> Oh really? Me too! However mine let’s me make friends without having to tell people all the time… he\u2019s not that protective you know.<\/p>\n

5. I hardly know you<\/strong><\/p>\n

HER:<\/strong> Listen I don\u2019t really know you, it\u2019s all moving a bit too fast
\nYOU:<\/strong> I agree. I don\u2019t usually do this with girls either… but I kinda feel different around you, more comfortable you know it\u2019s strange.<\/p>\n

Rules you should follow when dealing with last minute resistance<\/strong><\/h2>\n