{"id":5000,"date":"2012-06-25T14:38:53","date_gmt":"2012-06-25T14:38:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/?p=5000"},"modified":"2025-04-25T08:53:56","modified_gmt":"2025-04-25T08:53:56","slug":"rapport-building-questions-how-to-build-extremely-deep-levels-of-rapport","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/rapport-building-questions-how-to-build-extremely-deep-levels-of-rapport\/","title":{"rendered":"Rapport-Building Questions That Create Deep Connection"},"content":{"rendered":"
Asking the right questions can lead to extreme levels of trust.<\/p><\/div>\n
In this post I go into detail on connecting with a woman, showing you secrets that I\u2019ve NEVER revealed anywhere else before.<\/strong><\/p>\n The connection techniques I teach you in that program are so advanced that some guys find it hard to apply them.<\/p>\n So today I want to touch on rapport building questions<\/strong>, which is a basic level of rapport but still incredibly powerful.<\/p>\n Building a connection using questions which is so strong, she will feel compelled to see you again and won\u2019t understand why, it just feels like you understand her.<\/p>\n Once you master this area, you can then work on fine tuning your rapport building skills by learning the advanced techniques mentioned in the program. The best part is it works on all women, even if they’re playing hard to get<\/a>.<\/p>\n So let\u2019s get stuck in…<\/p>\n It\u2019s important to notice things about her that most guys never would. If you think about it \u201cmost\u201d guys will talk to a girl about boring mundane everyday things, which lead to zero attraction and and a dry conversation.<\/p>\n But with you it\u2019s different, because you are more observant than the average guy. You notice things about her appearance, like her clothes, jewelry, nails, perfume, etc. Women are crazy about details and so put a lot of effort into their appearance.<\/p>\n For example, her shoes may match her nails, toe nails and handbag or her necklace is a symbol which means something to her and has some emotion behind it (a story).<\/p>\n Or is she displaying horny body language<\/a>? This could help to escalate things quickly<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n Women like to talk<\/a>, we all know that.<\/p>\n But they REALLY like to talk about their passions, so asking questions which help them reveal a deeper side of them will allow them to open up, thus eliciting trust.<\/p>\n For example her passion maybe dancing or music. You need to touch on these points by showing you understand exactly why she feels that way about them.<\/p>\n You get the point.<\/p>\n Here are some questions that you need to consider asking. In sales they are known as \u201cprobing questions\u201d which help the customer open up and trust you more. In attraction<\/a> they are used to hook and build trust, so she begins to unravel and really like you.<\/p>\n Do you remember your first day at school?<\/strong><\/p>\n This question will make the girl think really hard about her past and it should be asked once you\u2019ve lead into it properly. Don\u2019t just ask this outright. It\u2019s an amazing question for making women feel like they\u2019re children again, so use it wisely.<\/p>\n You could say: I was talking to a friend of mine today and he asked me if I remember my first day at school, I hadn\u2019t thought about that in so long, but when I started to think back I just had so many awesome thoughts whiz back into my mind like meeting new people, mucking around in the playground etc, I walked around for the first part of the day with a huge grin on my face. What about you, do you remember your first day at school?<\/p>\n If you could wake up tomorrow anywhere in the world where would it be?<\/strong><\/p>\n This is an amazing question that replaces the boring ones you might come out with usually. What it also does is help her relate any feelings of comfort she gets about visualising this holiday back to you, it\u2019s called trance-state visualisation.<\/p>\n You could say: I’m going to Thailand this year… are you going anywhere? Actually, if you could wake up tomorrow anywhere in the world, where would it be?<\/p>\n Hooks are a way of keeping the conversation flowing and finding out more about the person in detail. You\u2019re kind of stacking knowledgeable talking points on that person which you can then use later.<\/p>\n Note:<\/strong> These are also great for you to deepen your connection with your girlfriend<\/a>.<\/p>\n Those hooks are then used for connecting in a positive way, which elevates that conversation and induces a deep level of rapport. Clever stuff right?<\/p>\n There are 7 ways<\/strong> you could be dealing with a hook. Using the holiday question above, let\u2019s assume she said \u201cI would wake up in Rio De Janeiro\u201d and use that as a hook which we can connect with below:<\/p>\n 1. \u201cOh awesome, I\u2019d love to wake up in Medellin, Colombia\u201d Or \u201cOooh, Rio? I don\u2019t like Brazilian people\u201d (Rejection, bad move).<\/p>\n 2. \u201cYeah, me too\u201d (Trying to connect, bad)<\/p>\n 3. \u201cCool, my brother just got back from there \u201c(Semi-rejection<\/a>, relating to yourself, neutral)<\/p>\n 4. \u201cCool, the bars are great and the people are friendly there\u201d (Positive logical connection, ok)<\/p>\n 5. \u201cIt\u2019s really hot there and the guys are supposed to be dicks\u201d (Negative logical connection, bad)<\/p>\n 6. \u201cAwesome, So you can walk around and enjoy the atmosphere when carnival is on, everyone\u2019s happy without a car in the world, they only want to party and make new friends, that\u2019s a great holiday\u201d (Positive connection, affirming their choice with visualisation, emotional connection, good).<\/p>\n 7. \u201cI think they\u2019d love you in Rio, you seem like the kind of person that would fit in there. The energy is amazing and you\u2019d be right at home.\u201d (Purely emotional connecting, cold-reading, good).<\/p>\n That\u2019s it dude! Rapport building questions<\/em> are very easy to master once you have the confidence to ask them. After that, it\u2019s plain sailing.<\/p>\n If you still suck at building rapport, you should check this out<\/strong><\/a>. Or at the very least, start using something called a “PUA IOI<\/a>” to get the conversation going.<\/p>\n What are some questions you ask a girl which are great for building rapport? Let me know in the comments below…<\/em><\/p>\n You should also read:<\/strong><\/p>\n In this post I go into detail on connecting with a woman, showing you secrets that I\u2019ve NEVER revealed anywhere else before. The connection techniques I teach you in that program are so advanced that some guys find it hard to apply them. So today I want to touch on rapport building questions, which is […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":48,"featured_media":5004,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5000","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-rapport","entry"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nBe very observant<\/h2>\n
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2 great questions you need to ask<\/h2>\n
Using hooks and connecting<\/h2>\n
Quick tips on rapport building<\/h2>\n
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