{"id":9468,"date":"2021-10-21T08:57:09","date_gmt":"2021-10-21T08:57:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/?p=9468"},"modified":"2025-04-25T09:57:38","modified_gmt":"2025-04-25T09:57:38","slug":"how-can-i-get-my-girlfriend-to-swallow","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/how-can-i-get-my-girlfriend-to-swallow\/","title":{"rendered":"How Can I Get My Girlfriend to Swallow?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trying to convince your girlfriend to swallow \u2013 even if everything else is rocking and rolling in the bedroom – is usually a bit of an uphill climb.<\/p>\n

Most girls have a real love\/hate relationship with the idea of swallowing.<\/p>\n

\"How<\/p>\n

Some of them are super into it \u2013 think it\u2019s just as hot as you do, are more than happy to do it every time they go down on you, and don\u2019t need any real encouragement to get up for it, either.<\/p>\n

Other girls, though, aren\u2019t into it at all.<\/p>\n

Not only are they not think it\u2019s as hot as you do, they don\u2019t look forward to it, might even dread it, and are going to have a real tough time getting over the whole idea of it.<\/p>\n

At the same time, there are definitely some things you can do to sort of steer things in a different direction.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have to be fair. You\u2019ll have to be calm and collected. And you\u2019ll have to be confident and clearly explain exactly why you want her to swallow in the first place.<\/p>\n

As long as you square those things away, though, the tips and tricks below should help you both find a path forward from here on out.<\/p>\n

Communication is Everything<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Straight out of the gate you need to communicate that this is something you are interested in her doing, but you also have to get real and honest feedback about why she isn\u2019t wild about it in the first place.<\/p>\n

There are only about a million and one different reasons a girl might not be into the idea of swallowing. It\u2019s impossible to know what your girlfriends reasons are exactly, though, without actually asking her.<\/p>\n

Playing some kind of guessing game isn\u2019t going to work.<\/p>\n

You might think that she\u2019s hesitant for one reason when the real reason is something else completely \u2013 and could waste a lot of time trying to convince her about something that makes no difference (or even push her in the wrong direction).<\/p>\n

Remember, though, that this communication has to be a real two way street.<\/p>\n

You need to be upfront about why this excites you, why it\u2019s something that you\u2019d love for her to do, and why it is important for you.<\/p>\n

But you also need to back off and pressure and realize that this is probably going to be an evolution of a conversation. Very rarely will you only have to talk about this just once to \u201cflip a switch\u201d.<\/p>\n

Go slow, go steady, and never pressure her into doing something she really doesn\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n

Take Care of Your Lady First<\/strong><\/h2>\n

This is a huge piece of the puzzle, but it\u2019s something that a lot of guys get wrong more often than not:<\/p>\n

You need to be giving a whole lot in order to get something like this from your girlfriend.<\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t making her toes curl in the bedroom on a regular basis the odds are pretty good that an ask like this is going to be dismissed out of hand.<\/p>\n

If your idea of getting down to business is some real mechanical foreplay, couple of pumps, and then rolling over and falling to sleep shortly after the chances are pretty good you\u2019re going to get your swallow request shot down like it dead duck.<\/p>\n

Before you even think about making this kind of ask you need to be sure that your girlfriend is 100% satisfied.<\/p>\n

You need to be taking care of things on a regular basis, and you need to make sure that she is having fun \u2013 not just appear to be having fun or \u201cfaking it\u201d to sort of go along with what you really like.<\/p>\n

Communicate about what she\u2019s into, what she\u2019s looking for, and then overdeliver as often as you can.<\/p>\n

This\u2019ll make an ask like swallowing a whole lot easier to, well, swallow.<\/p>\n

Give a Ton of Praise!<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Another thing you\u2019ll want to do before you make this kind of ask is give a lot of praise for everything you two are doing between the sheets.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to remember that a lot of girls spend most of their lives thinking that being overly sexual, being totally in tune with their sexuality, and doing things like swallowing is a bad thing.<\/p>\n

They get called all kinds of names if they are into this kind of stuff or even hint that they might be – and that\u2019s the kind of thing that leaves some pretty real scars.<\/p>\n

Quick Note<\/strong><\/p>\n

Praise your girlfriend, boost her confidence about what the two of you are doing together, and help her to unwind and become a whole lot more comfortable with herself, her sexuality, and the way that the two of you are intimate together.<\/p>\n

This\u2019ll make your sex life in general skyrocket in a big way, but it also make things like swallowing a whole lot easier to move forward with, too.<\/p>\n

Do Some Heavy Lifting Your End<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The last thing you want to do is make an ask as big as her swallowing and then make the experience absolutely horrific for her \u2013 ruining your chances of it ever happening again, but also pissing her off at the same time.<\/p>\n

Basic hygiene is an absolute must.<\/p>\n

This should be standard across the board, but you\u2019d be amazed at the amount of guys that don\u2019t tend to themselves at all.<\/p>\n

It should come as no surprise to anyone that a guy with a funky smelling bush that\u2019s out of control is going to have a tough time getting his girlfriend to go down on him<\/a> \u2013 let alone swallow.<\/p>\n

Quick Note<\/strong><\/p>\n

Keep things clean, keep things neat and orderly, and even think about trimming down there every now and again.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to go full on Brazilian by any stretch of the imagination. But you don\u2019t need a whole lot of \u201croot\u201d growing wildly all over the place, either.<\/p>\n

A healthy diet can go a long way towards making this proposition more palatable, too.<\/p>\n

Eat a lot more fruit (particularly pineapple \u2013 it really does make a difference), crush more fruit juice (especially pineapple juice), and eliminate things like tobacco, drugs, fried food, and other things that are going to taint the way you taste.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll appreciate the instantly noticeable effort for sure.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Force Things, DON\u2019T Trick Her Into Swallowing<\/strong><\/h2>\n

If there\u2019s one major thing to take away from this guide, though, it has to be that you should never – EVER – force things, pressure her, or trick her into doing something that she just isn\u2019t into.<\/p>\n

As we highlighted a moment ago, there are some girls out there that really have absolutely zero interest whatsoever in swallowing. There\u2019s nothing you\u2019re going to be able to do to make this an enjoyable experience for them \u2013 even if they might try it a couple of times to make you happy.<\/p>\n

Steer clear of those kinds of pressure situations every time.<\/p>\n

If you do start to get a little pushy or start to pressure her, you\u2019re only going to ruin your chances of intimacy, maybe even breakdown the connection that you\u2019ve built in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Plenty of people have ruined their entire relationship \u2013 great relationships otherwise \u2013 just by trying to shoehorn something like this into the mix.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make that same mistake!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Trying to convince your girlfriend to swallow \u2013 even if everything else is rocking and rolling in the bedroom – is usually a bit of an uphill climb. Most girls have a real love\/hate relationship with the idea of swallowing. Some of them are super into it \u2013 think it\u2019s just as hot as you […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":48,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9468","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-tips","entry"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nHow Can I Get My Girlfriend to Swallow?<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"If your lady isn't dropping to her knees, polishing your pecker and letting you finish in the back of her throat. 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