{"id":7287,"date":"2016-11-10T23:24:00","date_gmt":"2016-11-10T23:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/?p=7287"},"modified":"2025-04-24T19:28:56","modified_gmt":"2025-04-24T19:28:56","slug":"how-to-break-up-with-a-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/how-to-break-up-with-a-girl\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Break Up Fast\u2014Without Drama or Guilt [+ Mistakes Most Men Make]"},"content":{"rendered":"

So you want to break up with a girl, but don\u2019t know how to do it exactly? No worries. I\u2019ve been there before (been the dumper and dumpee) and I know precisely how to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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In this short guide I\u2019m going to give you the absolute best way to breakup with your girl.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And make it as painless for you and her as possible so you can get back to living a normal life again.<\/p>\n

Well, actually there are two<\/em> ways… but more on that later.<\/p>\n

Before we get into the nitty gritty of how to do it, you first need to understand WHY<\/strong> you want to break up with her and make sure it really is the right decision.<\/p>\n

Now I know you might be thinking \u201cDoes it matter? I don\u2019t love her anymore<\/em>\u201d or \u201cI just don\u2019t want to be with her<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a reason I ask…<\/strong><\/h2>\n

I\u2019ve seen countless guys over the years get into a relationship with a girl, split up with her again, then get back together with her again… and you know what?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s exhausting!<\/em><\/p>\n

Not only for them but for everyone who\u2019s close to them also.<\/p>\n

So I need you to answer these three questions honestly, before you look at the breakup guide in this post, understood?<\/p>\n

Good. Ok, here we go…<\/p>\n

Question 1: Do you actually want to be in a relationship?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Believe it or not, some guys actually fall into a relationship out of pure laziness.<\/p>\n

They like the regular sex, maybe she cleans the house or makes a men burrito, you like her family, she\u2019s cool with your friends<\/a>, she lives really close by, blah blah whatever the reason.<\/p>\n

If this is you, then this a bad place to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Not only will you never get into a relationship because you won the girl who you liked the most, but you\u2019ll just be plodding through life settling. F**k that.<\/p>\n

Question 2: What do you really want out of life?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Take a long hard think about what it is you really want out of life<\/a>, because a relationship can seriously put a strain on everything you\u2019d like to achieve.<\/p>\n

The freedom you have when you\u2019re single and without kids is priceless<\/em>.<\/p>\n

So make sure you have accomplished everything you wanted to do and you\u2019re financially secure.<\/p>\n

Question 3: Can you see a future with this girl?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

This is the biggest question.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you look at your girlfriend, can you honestly see yourself marrying her? Having children with her? Growing old with her?<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s an \u201cabs-f**king-lutley<\/em>\u201d, then I applaud you for finding a keeper.<\/p>\n

But… if it\u2019s a \u201cHell no<\/em>\u201d then you need to get out of the relationship immediately, it\u2019s just wasting everyone\u2019s time.<\/p>\n

Ok, so now we have those questions covered, let\u2019s move onto the good stuff.<\/p>\n

There are two ways<\/strong> in which you can break up with your girlfriend<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Both get the desired outcome, however couldn\u2019t be more different in terms of time.<\/p>\n

Question 3: Are you in the same country as her?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

If you’re in a LTR (Long Distance Relationship) you’re in for a hard ride.<\/p>\n

Let me be straight with you… long distance relationships don’t work<\/a> and they never will, unless there is something that’s pulling you both together. No I’m not referring to love. Something stronger… children!<\/p>\n

Let me explain:<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Method #1:<\/strong> This route means you are going to man up and do the right thing. You sit your girlfriend<\/a> down, follow the steps I lay out and boom… you\u2019re single.<\/p>\n

Method #2:<\/strong> On the other hand, this route means you will be playing the waiting game, becoming a less attractive man so that she ends up dumping you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Again, they both work, it just depends on what path you want to take.<\/p>\n

Either way, here\u2019s how to do them both:<\/p>\n

Method #1: How to break up with your girlfriend like a real man<\/strong><\/h2>\n

When I say \u201creal\u201d man, what I\u2019m referring to is the type of man that takes full control of his life and knows exactly what he wants.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t lie or mislead his girlfriend, he just tells her the truth and accepts the consequences.<\/p>\n

What type of girl is she?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

If she\u2019s a clingy, jealous, spiteful type of girl, then you need to stand your ground and be prepared for a hissy fit.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t veer off from the goal… you\u2019re there to break up with her. If she cries, screams, throws a tantrum or threatens you. Don\u2019t react, just do what you need to do and go.<\/p>\n

Be honest with her (but not TOO honest)<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Although I do advocate telling the truth and being honest with why you\u2019re breaking up with her. There are some things you maybe shouldn\u2019t say.<\/p>\n

Like for example, if she\u2019s put on 40lbs and you don\u2019t like fat girls. Probably best to say that you\u2019re not as attracted to her as you once were, instead of \u201cYou\u2019re too fat now\u201d.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t linger, get to the point<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Being vague will only make her more frustrated and anxious. Tell her from the moment you sit down, \u201cI want to break up with you\u201d, then explain your reasons why.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s much easier to drop the bad news first, than it is saying something like \u201cListen… erm… I really…. Errr… like you, but\u201d Ugh, nobody wants that drawn out breakup.<\/p>\n

Cut all ties (at least for the first year)<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Once the deed is done, you need to cut all ties with the girl. I\u2019m not saying you should be brutal and ignore her, but just be very distant.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t respond to any messages she sends and if needs must, then block her. It really depends on the type of girl you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n

Break up in person (never on the phone)<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Breaking up with a girl by text or on the phone is just a pussy move in my opinion. ALWAYS breakup in person, that way you can hug, cry, let her know that it\u2019s really over and move on.<\/p>\n

Do the breakup privately, not in public<\/strong><\/h3>\n

What are you thinking by breaking up with a girl in a bar? Moron.<\/p>\n

Always do it privately, her house would be good so you can leave straight after. Try to avoid your place I think.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t rub her face in it after the breakup<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Leave social media and your mutual friends alone for a while after the split. This will just aggravate her more if she sees you partying on a boat with Dan Bilzerian<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I understand that you\u2019ve got to live your life, so just do it a few months after. Not immediately after. Cool?<\/p>\n

Method #2: How to have your girlfriend break up with you like a boss<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Here we have the second option. This is for the type of guy that is patient and doesn\u2019t really like the idea of breaking things off because it\u2019s just too much stress.<\/p>\n

If you do this one right, she might get super pissed off and break up with you quicker than you might think. All depends on how invested you are in being unattractive.<\/p>\n

She needs to lose interest first<\/strong><\/h3>\n

For this method to work, SHE needs to be the one to lose interest in you first. Once she doesn\u2019t feel attraction for you anymore, that\u2019s when she will begin to question the relationship.<\/p>\n

At first it will be a small seed of doubt, then her loony slut dropping friends will weigh in on the situation saying things like \u201che sounds like a loser to me, ditch him\u201d.<\/p>\n

After weeks of thinking and trying to change you, she will finally give up.<\/p>\n

Take less care of yourself<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Cancel your gym membership right now, you will not be needing that thing. Your body needs to be below average at best.<\/p>\n

Have you done your laundry this week? Meh, who cares. Let her see that you couldn\u2019t care less about being clean.<\/p>\n

Accidentally on purpose forget your deodorant. Don\u2019t shave… pick your teeth at dinner… basically, BE DISGUSTING.<\/p>\n

Be less interested in everything<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When she calls you at work to ask whether you want to watch a movie tonight because it\u2019s a Friday and that\u2019s what you do every damn Friday.<\/p>\n

What are you going to say?<\/p>\n

\u201cErm, I don\u2019t really care…<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n

That will be your new favourite line when she asks if you want to do something. It shows that you lack ambition and don\u2019t value life. Everything women hate… muwahahahahahaha.<\/p>\n

Be terrible in bed<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Those tricks you learned from us about giving her multiple squirting orgasms? Oh yeah, forget those.<\/p>\n

Flatly refuse to go down on her. Say that you don\u2019t actually like doing it, so won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Be incredibly selfish in the sack. As soon as you bust a nut, rollover and get back to playing Candy Crush.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about your pleasure<\/strong>, not hers anymore.<\/p>\n

Leave a large gap in between texting<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When she texts you for the umpteenth time in one day… just leave it.<\/p>\n

Learn to not respond to her texts for hours, maybe even not at all. Just tell her (if she asks) that you forgot.<\/p>\n

This will frustrate her, even make her mad. But hey, it\u2019s not your fault, she needs to accept your selfish ways man.<\/p>\n

Be less decisive<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Oh man this is a good one.<\/p>\n

What do women hate in weak men the most?<\/em><\/p>\n

Yep, indecisiveness. It\u2019s like poison to them.<\/p>\n

The next time she asks you what you want to do on the weekend because she isn\u2019t busy. You say… \u201cI dunno, what do you want to do\u201d.<\/p>\n

Repeat that line and use it A LOT my friend. She will despise you for it.<\/p>\n

You know that thing she hates about you?<\/strong> Do that more<\/p>\n

There\u2019s going to be at least one thing that you do, which makes her blood boil.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s been trying to get you to stop it for months, even years. It\u2019s now time to bring it back with a vengeance.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t care what it is… cutting your toenails on the bed, sounding like a caveman when you chew, finishing your food before her… whatever it is, do it as much as you can.<\/p>\n

5 things most men do wrong when dumping a girl<\/h2>\n

Ok, so you now have two options you can take to dump your girl, let\u2019s go over some essentials for what you should never do.<\/p>\n

These are the common mistakes that guys make when they try to split up with the misses.<\/p>\n

1. Drunken rage<\/strong><\/h3>\n

One of the worst ways to initiate a breakup is with the use of alcohol. Never drink when you\u2019re thinking about dumping a girl, it will only fuel rage and could turn nasty.<\/p>\n

Especially if it\u2019s in a public place, that will make the whole situation 10x worse.<\/p>\n

2. Text dumping<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Come on seriously?<\/em> You\u2019re going to split up from a girl by text<\/a>? That\u2019s just unbelievable.<\/p>\n

If you do decide to do this, it\u2019s because of two reasons:<\/p>\n