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Here’s why… prepare for the truth.<\/p><\/div>\n

So you\u2019ve got the number\u2026 awesome. You text her<\/a> in the hope that you can setup a date with this girl, because you think she\u2019s hot. After a few texts back and forth, it fizzles out and she just stops responding. WTF?<\/p>\n

Even worse, you had what you thought was a great interaction, got the number, text her<\/a> the very next day and\u2026. nothing. Not even one reply from her. Ugh.<\/p>\n

So what could be the problem? Well your text game<\/a> sucks, clearly. <\/span>She seemed so up for it in person, but can\u2019t even be bothered to send you a measly little text message? F**k her bro. Actually, it\u2019s not her fault\u2026 it\u2019s yours.<\/p>\n

Yep, I said it. It\u2019s totally your fault that she didn\u2019t text you back and you\u2019re not at her place right now smashing her from behind. Why do I know it\u2019s your fault? Simple, because you made a big boo boo.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something that you did, that put her off\u2026 made her think that you\u2019re like every other boring guy out there. So she just got on with her life, because you\u2019re just not that interesting enough to pursue. Let\u2019s run through every possible reason why she didn\u2019t pickup her phone and text you back.<\/p>\n

GUESS WHAT?<\/strong> Your text game<\/a> sucks. That’s why she’s not texting you back. Watch this video<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/span> and learn how to master text game.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

1. She\u2019s forgotten about you already<\/strong><\/h2>\n

You thought the interaction went great, but in reality it was terrible. You didn\u2019t pick up on any of the hints she was giving off, your jokes were crap and you couldn\u2019t make a connection with her, plus there was zero sexual chemistry.<\/p>\n

In a nutshell, you\u2019re \u201cforgettable\u201d. The fact that she gave you her number, doesn\u2019t mean that she likes you enough to text back. It means she\u2019s too shy to reject you<\/a>, so gave it to you and thought \u201cI\u2019ll just ignore him, when he texts me\u201d. She\u2019s done the same thing to hundreds of guys over the year, so won\u2019t have a problem doing the same thing to you.<\/p>\n

2. You asked her a question she\u2019s heard a thousand times before<\/strong><\/h2>\n

What\u2019s the first thing you asked her in the very first text you sent? I bet you it was something like \u201cHey! It\u2019s Bob from last night\u2026 how\u2019s it going?\u201d or \u201cHey you, what happened to you after we left last night?\u201d. These are stock questions, fillers for a conversation<\/a> to keep it going and a desperate attempt at building rapport over text. It\u2019s no wonder she didn\u2019t respond.<\/p>\n

Quick tip:<\/strong> NEVER ask her for nudes<\/a> unless you’ve built enough rapport with her.<\/p>\n

3. Your \u2018texting voice\u2019 was weak<\/strong><\/h2>\n

When you\u2019re sending a text, think about how it\u2019s going to read from her own voice in her head. Do you sound weak and shy? Are you approval seeking and timid? Are you needy and trying not to hurt her feelings? If the text sounds weak, it will translate in a horrible way and she won\u2019t feel compelled to text you back. Be manly<\/a> and own your texts.<\/p>\n

Note:<\/strong> If you need some help, check out this text game openers<\/a> guide.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. You obviously want something from her<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Each text you send should be viewed as chunks of value. You\u2019re giving her something valuable with every text, whether that be humour, sexual tension, entertainment\u2026 whatever it is, she should look forward to receiving a text from you, not think \u201cUgh, it\u2019s him again\u201d when your name comes up on the screen.<\/p>\n

If your texts are predictable (like sexting<\/a>), then she knows you\u2019re just going to ask her out for drinks at some point. For example \u201cWhat are you doing on Friday?\u201d obviously means you want her to come out, you\u2019re looking for her approval and permission.<\/p>\n

5. She\u2019s genuinely too busy<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Girls are by nature, busier than guys. They are more sociable, more open and always have options to do things, especially if they are hot. So if you get her number and text her something entirely unoriginal, there\u2019s a very high chance she won\u2019t text back because she\u2019s just too damn busy and forgets too.<\/p>\n

What with her girly friends texting her, other guys texting her, family etc\u2026 when a boring text comes in from you, she\u2019ll just not reply for now because she\u2019s doing other shit and will just forget about you. Don\u2019t take it personally, just make your texts more valuable\u201d.<\/p>\n

6. An ex randomly got back in touch with her<\/strong><\/h2>\n

This is very rare, but it\u2019s totally possible especially if she\u2019s a smoke. An ex may be have recently gotten back in touch with her or already be in touch with her when you came along and she\u2019s just playing her cards close to her chest to see how things pan out. Remember there are also multiple guys texting her at the same time she\u2019s texting you, so you\u2019re in competition with these other schmucks too.<\/p>\n

7. It\u2019s a flake bro\u2026 wrong number<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The most obvious of all but still one that a lot of guys fall for\u2026. she may not respond because the number was a fake in the first place. If you\u2019re still getting girls numbers without double checking that it\u2019s the right one before you leave her, then you\u2019re a fool and you seriously need to slap yourself. Schoolboy error son.<\/p>\n

8. You\u2019re being far too serious<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Lighten up, crack some jokes, be a little cheeky\u2026 stop with the serious tone in your texts or taking what she says too seriously, it\u2019s quickest way to dry up those sexual juices she may have had for you.<\/p>\n

9. You played it too cool for school<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Leaving it too long to text her is a major problem. If she\u2019s hot, she will not hesitate to forget about you when you don\u2019t text her back for days. This only works if you\u2019ve built a strong level of rapport and she likes you a lot. In the beginning, this will never work, so don\u2019t even think about it, even if you\u2019re the lazy type it\u2019s not working for you dude. Drop it.<\/p>\n

10. Not enough rapport before the number<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ok let\u2019s finish this list of with biggest reason why she didn\u2019t text you back. Your game is BAD. Yep, you read that right. Your game is just not strong enough and you didn\u2019t end with a \u201ccliffhanger\u201d meaning that she was hoping you\u2019d text, as opposed to\u2026 \u201cWho\u2019s this? I don\u2019t remember a bob\u201d.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s it, re-read the list. Make sure you understand the mistakes you’re doing and squash them one by one. The sooner you do this, the less flakes you will get. One other thing to point out. Stop texting, unless you absolutely need to. Always call her.<\/p>\n

Want to know how to text her properly? Watch this video.<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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