{"id":6243,"date":"2014-04-03T12:07:41","date_gmt":"2014-04-03T12:07:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/?p=6243"},"modified":"2020-12-08T06:14:04","modified_gmt":"2020-12-08T06:14:04","slug":"why-cant-i-pickup-any-women-in-clubs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/why-cant-i-pickup-any-women-in-clubs\/","title":{"rendered":"Nightclub Game Question: Why Can\u2019t I Pickup Any Women In Clubs?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Having problems with club game?<\/p><\/div>\n

I recently received this question from a guy who was really frustrated with his results in nightclubs and not feeling as though his game was consistent.<\/p>\n

This is a very common problem with guys and one that I used to have myself too. Nowadays however I\u2019m rock solid when it comes to club game and can have my pick of women in any club. But that\u2019s only because I discovered what worked and applied the techniques I\u2019m going to show you in my answer below\u2026 EVERY time I went out.<\/p>\n

Enough with the small talk.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s the original question\u2026<\/h2>\n

From: Alan (Los Angeles California)<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hey Gambler,<\/p>\n

I really need your help! I suck sooooooo bad when it comes to club game<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m out with my buddies every week, usually Friday and Saturday, maybe some days in the week, especially if it\u2019s the summer. And I just can\u2019t seem to pickup any girls when I\u2019m out. I struggle with the opening, fumble through the interaction and never have the balls to close so the girl just usually walks away.<\/p>\n

My looks are average, I have a decent body (not a six pack or anything, but slim) 5ft 8 and I\u2019ve been told on many occasions that I\u2019d make a great boyfriend\u2026 so WTF is going on man??<\/p>\n

I have taken girls home from clubs before, but it\u2019s just nowhere near the level I want to be. It felt like more luck than anything, I need to be more consistent!<\/p>\n

Some of my friends are just amazing at pulling girls, I see them going home with girls every week (cute ones too, not ugly end of the night stragglers) with ease and I just end up grabbing some take out and then going home alone. It\u2019s just depressing.<\/p>\n

What can I do to make it easier for me, stand out, make girls approach me, look more attractive etc???? Please help dude, I\u2019m just so pissed off these days.<\/p>\n

Alan<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

My response:<\/h2>\n

Wooooaaaahhhhh there young Alan.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry I feel ya pain, I was once in the very same position.<\/p>\n

So there are a couple of points I want to address here. The first being your mindset. You said \u201cwhat can I do to make it easier\u2026 make girls approach me\u201d.<\/p>\n

You need to flip what your saying, because listen. You\u2019re not a famous actor or fitness model, so girls aren\u2019t going to make an effort to come and talk to you if you have nothing of value to offer.<\/p>\n

Club game is all about VALUE. Not dancing<\/a> or being a court jester.<\/p>\n

As soon as you walk into that club, you\u2019re on the same level as every other guy in there. Level 1.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s up to you, to stack the value so high throughout the night that you\u2019re on level 10 and every girl in that club wants to be on your level.<\/p>\n

This brings me onto my second point\u2026 what you look like.<\/p>\n

I sense you\u2019re confused because you feel as though you look good enough, sort of implying that you\u2019re not damn ugly so women shouldn\u2019t be treating you the way they are right?<\/p>\n

Look, although looks are important, they aren\u2019t the only factor that women are looking for in a guy. Unless they are incredibly shallow and want to get laid, in which case being a model at this point is great.<\/p>\n

If you look \u201cgood\u201d but you don\u2019t have anything else of value, you\u2019re going to fail in the club\u2026 just like you\u2019re doing now.<\/p>\n

So, what can you do to improve your club game?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let me use a video game analogy here to get the point across.<\/p>\n

Below are a bunch of \u201cvalue\u201d boosters which if used correctly, will make you the most attractive guy in the club.<\/p>\n

Every time you feel as though your game is fizzling out with girls, go through these value boosters and check them off one by one, until you\u2019re surrounded by hotties all wanting to go home with you.<\/p>\n

\"club-game-value-boosters\"<\/p>\n

Hope that helps dude, if you need any more help just let me know.<\/p>\n

Regards,
\nRich (aka Gambler)<\/p>\n

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