Give me any coffee shop in any city and 5 minutes on the clock and I will walk out with a number from a hottie… guaranteed… everytime.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Yep, it\u2019s that time people.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m going to show you how to pick up girls in coffee shops<\/strong> using a surefire system I\u2019ve been using for a few years now.<\/p>\n
BUT, I\u2019m starting to really like the whole coffe shop pickup thing.<\/p>\n
You see with coffee shops, it\u2019s like a whole other game.<\/p>\n
Quick tip:<\/strong><\/span> If you want to get good at picking up women, then I strongly suggest you check this out<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n
So now you know why coffee shops are great for picking up women and running PUA day game<\/span><\/a>, let\u2019s get into the different types of women you can expect to find in them.<\/p>\n
So that\u2019s the types down, now we want to actually put the wheels in motion and learn the system. Ready? Cool, let\u2019s go!<\/p>\n
So this is it big man, my system for meeting and picking up women in any coffee shop. I\u2019ve used this in multiple cities all over the world and I\u2019ve NEVER had one single rejection or flake.<\/p>\n
The reason why is because I observe my environment first and see which types of girls are likely to be open to talking and which aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n
Anyways, here\u2019s the system…<\/p>\n
Quiet coffee shops are fine, but you don\u2019t have much to work with if there are no hot girls in there. So I always go for the tourist traps or coffee shops in the centre of town. That way you have a lot more to work with and the foot traffic is high.<\/p>\n
The more you do this the easier it will become to seek out the girls who are ripe for picking up. But from the moment you walk in the door.<\/p>\n
Take note of every girl… are they with a guy? Are they in groups? If they are on their own, are they reading a book? Are they studying or working on a macbook? Do they look bored? Are they giving you any IOI\u2019s?<\/p>\n
I always watch out for the IOI\u2019s as soon as I walk in, if I get any then I will 100% act on them. These sets are the most solid when it comes to picking up, because they\u2019ve already shown interest in you.<\/p>\n
Once you\u2019ve selected the girl you want to approach, you can do it in two different ways. The first is to use the natural opener and the second is to use the observational opener.<\/p>\n
Before you do either, you need to approach her in a non-aggressive way. So you can either crouch down next to the table\/seat or just bend over slightly if she\u2019s sitting down so she can hear you. This will give off a non-threatening friendly vibe.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s the natural opener:<\/strong><\/p>\n
Go over to her and simply say \u201cExcuse me… I just saw you from over there and wanted to come over and say hi, because I think you\u2019re very cute :)\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n
Natural right? Yep, this is PERFECT for coffee shop game. Straightforward, direct and to the point my friend.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s the observational opener:<\/strong><\/p>\n
Go over and say \u201cExcuse me, sorry to bother you but I just noticed you\u2019re reading \u201cblah blah\u201d… I have to ask, are you enjoying it? Because I found it so hard to get into\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n
The observational opener takes practice because you need to be a good observer, but once you nail it, it\u2019s SOOOO easy to use and you\u2019ll begin to notice TONS of things that you can use to open with.<\/p>\n
If she responds well to the opener, then you need to start the initial rapport building stage<\/a> which basically means kicking off the attraction and building comfort.<\/p>\n
Carrying on from the natural opener:<\/p>\n
Carrying on from the observational opener:<\/p>\n
Ok so the rapport is in full swing, she\u2019s giving you IOI\u2019s, talking and you feel that the interaction is going well. It\u2019s now time to drop a few hooks, so that you can see whether she\u2019s really into you or just being polite.<\/p>\n
To do this you need to bring up topics that will encourage her to ask you questions, once she does this then you\u2019re in and you can move onto connecting more.<\/p>\n
So with the book example, I could say \u201cYeah, I actually met the author last yeah randomly in a bar in Tokyo, was crazy…\u201d.<\/p>\n
If you were using the natural opener, then you just need to talk more about things you might have in common that you can relate too. Like \u201cOh cool, you\u2019re Brazilian, I was thinking of heading out to Rio this year actually…\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n
If she doesn\u2019t initiate with the questions, that\u2019s fine. Just keep ploughing until she does.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s say the conversation is going amazing, she\u2019s giving you IOI\u2019s, asking you questions and her body language is completely focused on you. Now what? Well you need to develop that spark… that attraction, which is going to make her feel drawn to you.<\/p>\n
For this to happen you need to \u201cbreak rapport\u201d with her. So if she says something like \u201cYeah, I love that book…\u201d OR something else she might love, you say \u201cAahhh seriously? No way, that\u2019s not cool… I couldn\u2019t stand that book it was terrible\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n
Then she will defend whatever you don\u2019t like, which is her working for your attention and approval. If she does this, you\u2019re home and dry fella.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t sit there too long, you need to get going so that you leave the interaction on a high note and she wants to see you again. Simply say \u201cDamn, I need to meet my friends, I\u2019m late… listen we should meet up again when you\u2019re free…\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n
To which she will say \u201cYeah we should\u201d<\/em>.<\/p>\n
With that said you need to close. Now I always go for the number close, but I\u2019ve also found that Facebook is a great way to close in coffee shops and it can actually even be better, because it\u2019s less pressure and she can see your profile which gives you a better chance to grab her with the social proofed pics :)<\/p>\n
That\u2019s it dude! The system in full.<\/p>\n