{"id":4970,"date":"2012-06-05T15:04:33","date_gmt":"2012-06-05T15:04:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/?p=4970"},"modified":"2020-12-15T05:43:17","modified_gmt":"2020-12-15T05:43:17","slug":"10-habits-of-highly-successful-seducers-that-you-need-to-adopt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.puatraining.com\/10-habits-of-highly-successful-seducers-that-you-need-to-adopt\/","title":{"rendered":"The 10 Habits Of Highly Successful Seducers… That You Need To Adopt"},"content":{"rendered":"
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This couldn’t be more true.<\/p><\/div>\n

With every successful seducer… player… ladies man, whatever you want to call them, you\u2019ll notice a bunch of habits each of these guys have.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now these habits have been formed by straight up hard work. I\u2019m talking grinding in the streets, clubs, busy bars, parties… every possible place you can imagine.<\/p>\n

But as a guy just starting out in game, it\u2019s very easy to get confused, over analyse every situation and second guess yourself until you\u2019re at the point of frustration which leads to giving up.<\/p>\n

Today I want to run through 10 habits which I believe every successful seducer (including me) has and is the main reason why he\u2019s so good at charming the pants off women.<\/p>\n

They are the same habits that I use on a daily basis and explain in detail on Stealth Attraction<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Do yourself a rather large favour and read these habits again and again, until they stick in your feeble little mind and become a part of you.<\/p>\n

Here they are:<\/p>\n

1. He\u2019s extremely persistent<\/h2>\n

Let\u2019s say you have never approached a girl in your life and you suck at talking to women<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Now one day you wake up and decide to get this area of your life handled, so you set yourself the challenge of approaching 100 women by the end of the week.<\/p>\n

Out of that 100 women you approach, how many do you think will give you their number or even go on an instant date with you? I\u2019m guessing more than half.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s over 50 women willing to go on a date<\/a> with you within 1 week.<\/p>\n

Why is that? It\u2019s because your persistence has paid off. If you approached just 1 girl in that week and she rejected you, would you stop? If you did then you wouldn’t get anywhere, what\u2019s the point!<\/p>\n

You could approach 99 women, but the 100th woman could end up being your girlfriend<\/a> and an amazing person.<\/p>\n

The point is this. Persistence pays, so don\u2019t be such a bitch<\/a>.<\/p>\n

2. He\u2019s very resilient<\/h2>\n

The ability to stay calm, confident and unhinged in a moment that would cause others to feel a deep level of uncertainty or depression, is a skill that takes a long time to learn.<\/p>\n

Having said that, if you can build up your resilience to bitches, man haters and cock teasers, you\u2019ll be way more successful with women than most men.<\/p>\n

You see resilience means that you don\u2019t get flustered around women that talk down to you, reject you or try and throw you off balance.<\/p>\n

If a girl tells you to \u201cf**K\u201d off… just wipe that from your memory, laugh it off and move on, it\u2019s no biggie.<\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s willing to adapt<\/h2>\n

Things change, it\u2019s inevitable.<\/p>\n

For you to become a clever seducer who uses the world around him to his advantage, you must be willing to adapt quickly.<\/p>\n

If a girl cancels on you, you adapt and make arrangements with another girl.<\/p>\n

If you get caught talking to another girl whilst on a date, you adapt and handle the situation like a pro.<\/p>\n

Bad things can and will happen, but being able to move past and over those kinks in your life will make you an unstoppable player.<\/p>\n

4. He learns from his mistakes<\/h2>\n

If you don\u2019t learn from your mistakes… then you\u2019re an idiot.<\/p>\n

Mistakes are absolutely fine and should be made with women, but you should always take note of the mistake you\u2019re making so that you don\u2019t ever make them again.<\/p>\n

The quicker you make more mistakes, the quicker you will learn what not to do and thus make far less mistakes over time.<\/p>\n

Obvious, but powerful.<\/p>\n

5. He tries new material<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s fine to use an opener that you\u2019ve been using for years if it still works, but at some point that opener will become old hat, which means you need to switch up your seduction style<\/span><\/a> and try new material.<\/p>\n

Everything from opening to closing, it all matters.<\/p>\n

A master seducer will be trying new ways of picking up women every week and seeing what works. He knows to build attraction with girls<\/a> slowly and in a precise way.<\/span><\/p>\n

The stuff that works, he\u2019ll keep and refine so it almost never fails every time he uses it… the stuff that doesn\u2019t work he\u2019ll learn from and never use it again.<\/p>\n

6. He never settles<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s sad when I see a guy who has just settled for any girl, he\u2019s sold himself the false belief that he can\u2019t get a 9 or 10 and so will be happy to settle for a 6.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s complete bullshit!<\/p>\n

A master seducer NEVER settles, because he knows deep down that he can get the best. The most beautiful women know that he can handle them, whilst other guys quake with fear.<\/p>\n

7. He focuses on one area<\/h2>\n

As the saying goes \u201ckeep it simple stupid\u201d.<\/p>\n

You have to focus on one area at a time and get really good at that area before moving on. For example, you may be naturally funny but you\u2019re crippled with approach anxiety<\/a> so you can\u2019t ever approach a girl.<\/p>\n

Or you may be the best opener in the world with zero fear, but you can\u2019t close.<\/p>\n

Focus on each area of the pickup one by one, until you get good enough to move onto the next area.<\/p>\n

Start with the open, rapport and then the close to begin with, everything else is just detail.<\/p>\n

8. He accepts his weaknesses<\/h2>\n

Everyone has a weakness, even the master seducer.<\/p>\n

You have to accept them and face them head on, otherwise they will forever be a weakness of yours and your downfall at some stage.<\/p>\n

Look at it this way, if you never work on your weaknesses how can you truly master the art of pickup?<\/p>\n

Discover what you suck at and work on it.<\/p>\n

9. He understands that practice is the key<\/h2>\n

Practice leads to mastery.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t become good at anything without practicing and repeating the same task over and over until you master it.<\/p>\n

A successful PUA has closed hundreds (close to thousands) of women and has followed a very similar pattern with every one of them, meaning he\u2019s refined his skills to the point where game is second nature to him.<\/p>\n

An old proverb says: If you do something for 10,000 you will have reached the level of mastery.<\/p>\n

Now I\u2019m not saying you should work on your game for 10 or more years, but if you just focused for an hour each day, do you think that within a month or two you would be much better than when you started? Hell yeah you would!<\/p>\n

10. He surrounds himself with good people<\/h2>\n

You become your environment.<\/p>\n

Remember that, because it\u2019s the most important habit on this list.<\/p>\n

Never ever surround yourself with people that can potentially ruin your game. Always be around those guys (and girls) that can benefit your game.<\/p>\n

By being around good people, good things will naturally come more easily to you than if you\u2019re constantly struggling with bad influencers.<\/p>\n

For example, if all of your friends are married<\/a>, engaged or in a long term relationship but you\u2019re still single… who do you go out with to refine your game?<\/p>\n

Get your social circle sorted<\/a> and find some good people!<\/p>\n

That\u2019s it. I hope you take these habits onboard and try to use them in your everyday life because they really do work.<\/p>\n

Listen up dude! If you want to improve your game and start banging the type of women you whack off to… you should learn my secrets<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n

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