I had just come to the realisation the other night that I dont know how to get to a closing point of dancefloor game!

I used to be a dancer when i was younger, so (I dont want to sound like im up myself, but), i have no trouble busting a move on the dancefloor, and there is no doubt about it that girls love a good dancer (as i would always have girls blatantly obviously grinding themselves against me, but would never know where to take it from there/always pussied out from that point onwards).

so i have taken detailed notes of your step-by-step guide, and i now feel much more confident about dancefloor game, and absolutely cannot wait till my next chance to go out and put it to practice.

Again, thank you so much for your help!

The good news is that Isolating the girl from her friends on the dancefloor can be as simple or as complicated as you want. The bad news is that there is no way I know of to get a girl straight from the dancefloor to the bedroom, thats what I mean by dancefloor game and the rest of club game being part of the same skillset, there is often (but not always) more work to be done once you get the girl off the dance floor.

The best part about college game is that you can try out all kinds of crazy things with very little consequence, so I would say next time you go out and run in to the isolation/escalation problem, try solving it in the most creative way possible, you will learn that you can get away with a lot more than you think.

To get you started though; if you are spending any length of time dancing with a girl (building physical rapport) then you should at some point include her friends, even something like a quick spin of a couple of friends shows them that you are not some weirdo that will steal their friend away, but a cool guy just out enjoying himself and building the value of everyone around him, 90% of the time this will get you a level of acceptance from her peer group, making isolation much much easier.

As for getting to girl to leave her friends on the dancefloor to go somewhere with you, have you considered just extracting the whole group? It’s a great value builder to walk on to the floor and leave with, not just one, but a group of girls 2 minutes later. Then you can escalate from there (having already built physical rapport).

I was just wondering what advice you have on getting the girl from the dancefloor to the bedroom. I'm in college, so i k-close A LOT but it rarely ever goes any further. This is mostly because it's so loud that I can't build very good rapport, and I can't isolate because she does not trust me enough to abandon her friend on the dancefloor, even though we just made out! Any tips for getting from the dancefloor to the bedroom with friends, cockblocks, and other factors in mind?

When I first started dance, I tried learning the popping and waving moves you see in mainstream dance films, but at that time I lacked the experience and the coordination to do it well. I started off with break-dancing as the basic toprock (standing moves) are easy to learn and go along with most of the hip hop music you hear in the clubs, and most of those basic steps I still use today. Check out my video post on this blog for some easy steps, or you can youtube toprock tutorial for more steps.

Really you only need three or four moves that you can do on beat to stand out from most of the guys with less than perfect timing. Just get confident with a couple of steps and then have fun with the music, you will be surprised at how intuitive dancing is.

Any other questions, just ask, and let me know how you get on

Stephen :)

It seems that you had a natural flair for dance floor game, and knowing what the steps are will simply serve to give you more consistent results.

This probably works best at college as social acceptance and being seen as part of the 'cool' group take priority over all else for the majority of students, so good social proofing will make you unstoppable :)

Be sure to keep me updated

Stephen :)

AFC Adam made a great discovery though, if you show too much interest in a girl of a certain attractiveness it will be much more difficult to attract more attractive ones. Your value is essentially demonstrated by the ‘calibre’ of girls you’re with at any time.

You saw this in action when the girls that practically handed themselves to you increased in attractiveness, as you did not ‘settle’ on any particular one.

So, value is the all important factor, having all the interest in your direction without giving much in return will raise your value, and this will get the more attractive girls to give you more IOI’s (but often they are too proud to open you so you will have to force the IOI from them)

As for the push-pull issue you were having, the key factor of push pull is that it allows you to escalate much more quickly, in fact it’s perfectly acceptable to physically escalate on every pull, (one hand-two hands-lower back-waist-stomach-wherever you want to go!) This is also important to keep the dominant frame where you are leading and smoothly ramping up the tension. So try escalating a little quicker and holding eye contact for longer and see if the girls remain interested for longer. It’s just a matter of experience and calibration.

I hope this helps, get back to me with how it goes :)

Stephen :)

Oh, and girls opening me on the dance floor freaked me out the first time too, you will enjoy getting used to it I’m sure ;)