Firstly, a shy guy will never be able to approach 1 girl a day, and even if he did, there is no way he would be confident after 30 days.In fact there would be almost no change in his level of anxiety.It takes at least a thousand approaches to really see a meaningfull change….

There is no such thing as “approaching”. As John Cooper said, “you don’t approach your mom in the kitchen.” It’s like meeting old friends, “Oh hey look! It’s Sarah, let’s go say hi to her”. BAM – Done. The opener is the LEAST significant part of the interaction…it lasts 5 seconds…why should it be such a big deal?

The opener means jack shit. Why? Cuz regardless of the response you can ALWAYS redirect to Where Are You From?….Are you a student here?
And if she doesn’t respond…boohoo…move on to a girl that is more interested…abundance my friends!

Just yank some useless nonsense out of your ass and say that to her. Who cares! If, at any time, you force yourself to “approach” a woman, or you “care” about rejection, u will fuck it up, cuz you are taking life too seriously and you do not really want to put your DICK inside of her! Again, daygame is not about having some pointless boring conversations, its about picking up some hot bitches and getting laid.

You find a central spot near where you live (preferably inner city), and you go out with the intention of bringing a girl back to your apartment to “watch a movie” or if she has to go somewhere you number close. But the aim of the game – is SEX! Any number you get is prolonging the time before you fuck her.

Ideally you take her on a nice walk through the city after you first MET her (do not use the word Approach – trust me, it fucks you up on an unconscious level) on the street. Then you seal the deal at your place.

That’s how easy it is!

I don’t approach, I meet, talk to her and get up close in her space to see if she is hot or not. Therefore I don’t give myself the excuse of “oh…i don’t know if she is hot, I can’t see.” Get yo ass over there and get up in that woman’s space. If she has pimples on her face or something…eject from the convo. As easy as Eazy-E. Pickup is fucking hilarious. See the humour in it.

I definetely agree to that relationships in our society is fundamentally based on womens needs. That is why you have got to find out what your needs are and try to implement them in your dating Life. When you know this you will learn your boundaries. Fx if woman tells you to Cook more often because she is doing this, tell her that you never cooked when you lived alone, and a warm meal every day is her preference not yours. Women take their preference for granted, and sometimes assume that they are right. Guys not being as verbal as women get convinced that she is right. Often times she is not.

Stepp:

I respect your opinion and I thank you for it.

You’re quite right…I do have bad thoughts etched into my mind. That is what happens when the dating farce is a zero sum game. Think of it as something similar to pro sports:

For team that wins the championship (the Baltimore Ravens for example), there is also a team that finishes dead last (the Kansas City Chiefs). For every so-called player who can get a different babe every night, there are guys like me who don’t have a prayer (and not always for lack of trying).

The losing adds up and ultimately gets to the point where one either sticks with the losing or retires from the game. Admittedly, in my case, there isn’t much point in playing a “game” I have no shot at winning.

Stepp:

I respect your opinion and I thank you for it. I cannot argue with your point that I do have some deeply ingrained negative thoughts about all this. I admit it. That said, here are a few things I’ve noticed over the past 25-30 which led me to throw in the sponge on all this:

1) Most women believe men are expendable at best, and useless as usual.

2) Most women believe that men are the enemy.

3) If a guy is a so-called “alpha”, he’s written off as phony…but if he ISN’T an alpha, he’s a WUSS!!! Thus, a guy can’t win for trying.

4) In this day and age, an entire generation of men, after being groomed to treat women with kindness, respect, honesty and humor, are invariably lumped into the usual anti-male diatribe of “all men are…(insert insult here).”

5) Nothing a guy does is good enough for most women in this day and age.

6) The male-bashing, man-hating feminazis have taken over the debate and will kill anyone who dares to disagree with them.

So, it’s real hard for those women who claim to want a good man yet push men away at the same time. How’s that for irony?

For a lot of guys, myself included, when we’re hit with the “men suck” mentality on a regular basis every freakin’ day, it sure is hell hard (at least for me) to think that meeting the allegedly “fair sex” is pointless.

Take it for whatever it’s worth, but when all that is out there is the enemy camp, one does not go in.

Haha, if you think like that your definetly never going to meet women. Just chill out and realise that there are a lot of really hot and nice girls out there. You sound like you take rejection way to personally. When a girl rejects you, most of the time it’s because of something you can’t control, like they’re in a bad mood, or another guy was just a prick to them. If a girl is an asshole to you, take it like a man. Move on to another set and just laugh about how much of a bitch that girl is. You don’t want girls like that anyway. But anyway it seems them bad thoughts are deeply etched into your mind so you probably don’t give a shit what I say. But your on a pua website so I assume you do want to pick up girls:p

Val:
Why is automatically a sign of weakness or non-confidence when guys throw in the sponge on the so-called game? Don’t you think a lot of guys had confidence once upon a time? Sadly, after getting shot down enough times by man-hating witches, the come to the realization that it’s an exercise in futility, and they can withstand only so much failure. This is what happened to me. I live with it.

Illiterate or not, one doesn’t need a Ph.D. to see that meeting women is impossible; especially when you consider that a large majority of women are convinced guys bring nothing to the table in a relationship. Unfortunately, the collateral damage from so much hostility results in being demoralized. One can only take so much failure before cutting one’s losses and getting out of the so-called “game.” That is just realism, not cowardice.

Mickey, by saying that if women diss men they hate them, you are just plain illiterate in the Game. They just filter out weak and unconfident males. They do more so when they are less dependant on males in the society or the ratio women to men is greatly in their favor. So learn game and breach their defence mechanism. Then the next thing you see is that how they hate men by sucking your cock. Lol