Comments on: Coffee Shop Game: How To Pick Up Girls In Coffee Shops… This Works 100% Every Time

By: Graham

Graham — Sat, 03 Aug 2013 06:19:58 +0000

In reply to PUA Training. Yes, saying 'sorry' and 'excuse me' in a confident way is socially intelligent. It shows you have good social skills.

By: Graham

Graham — Sat, 03 Aug 2013 06:15:32 +0000

In reply to John. I carry a piece of paper with hand written affirmations. As far as age goes (I am 59) I have written 'Age has nothing to do with it. End of conversation. Move on.' This is all I need to remind myself that any conversations I might be having with myself about age are going to be unproductive. Thinking your too old is a limiting belief. The way to get over it is to get out there and prove that age doesn't matter.

By: david

david — Sun, 28 Jul 2013 00:44:03 +0000

Hey richard, great tips! Im from brazil and girls here are very opened and friendly. Here is my small problem with it, it seems that the hottest women ( the kind of brazilian girls i like) are inside somekind of strong social circle, surrounded by other hot women and goodlooking guys and to get into them you really gotta become into that structure, belonging to the group, otherwise the access is too complicated to them. Small exemple, they know each other by last names, gives best private parties… It feels like some consanostra..

Do you have any tip how to break this strongs social structures and getting access to them?

By: John

John — Fri, 26 Jul 2013 14:46:10 +0000

In reply to neil.

The non-issue is absolutely that!- If you think your age is an issue, don’t bring it up. If you think you don’t have enough money- don’t bring it up, etc. The only issues are the ones you bring up- as a man you have everything under control ( unless you bring it up) — woman will follow your cue- raise a doubt about yourself and they will have doubts about you

By: faisal

faisal — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 08:30:32 +0000

hey.. im from india.. and here i dnt think you would find girls that are so open.. and besides im shy too.. and approaching a girl like this will do make me uncomfortable.. im going to visit some beaches this june ( Goa ).. and i need help to hook up with girls there

By: vito

vito — Mon, 08 Apr 2013 22:18:35 +0000

I’m not sure about going to her and telling her shes cute..I feel that is pretty bold and a bit too advanced. Wouldn’t that make her a bit uncomfortable (unless you are brad pitt). The fact that you went over to her is enough to let her know that you like her.. Ive had some a guy come up to me before and started talking to me and I assumed he was gay and liked me.

By: knuck

knuck — Tue, 05 Mar 2013 14:30:26 +0000

In reply to not bad.

“hooks” is something you’d know if you read this site more. It’s simply PUA jargon, it’s a term made up to shorten having to explain the phenomenon over and over. Pretty much like every other word in the world.

Having things in common with a girl is crucial. It’s not lying, it’s just bending the truth a little, if you can find genuine commonalities all the better..

If you know what you’re doing, nothing is going to “haunt” you, sounds like you could stand to read a few more of these articles, I guarantee Rich knows what he’s talking about more than you.. if you don’t agree with 40% of this article, you’re mistaken

By: not bad

not bad — Tue, 05 Mar 2013 00:28:01 +0000

I agree with this post about 60%. But BSing her in the middle that you like the same things she does (when you don’t necessarily)– ( wtf is “hooks”? ) is not a good idea and could haunt you very quickly.

By: andy

andy — Sun, 17 Feb 2013 22:36:29 +0000

Hi Rich and fellow readers – #5 on dropping hooks, and the separate article on hooks seem very unclear, still don’t know what they are. can anybody clearly explain them?

By: neil

neil — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 03:46:20 +0000

In reply to Ken.

I think you’d have to be on your game and approach the situation a little differently, but nothing is impossible :) I’d suggest simply pretending like it’s a non-issue and follow Rich’s ideas. Then maybe throw something in after you’ve build initial rapport, like, “even though I’m a little older, I still kinda feel like I’m in my twenties, you know?” and give examples. Maybe if she follows that lead with a comment on the same topic, pepper in something about how your last long term relationship was with a woman much younger than you. But don’t make a long conversation out of it, because then you’ll seem insecure about the age difference. Just an idea…