If you don’t spend money on us then we ARE going to tell you that you’re an annoyance that no one wants in the club. We’ll gleefully tell other dancers and waitresses that you’re probably just poor and desperate and you’re likely only at the club because no one would even give you the time of day for free. They will all avoid you because of that. You will get mocked in the dressing room. No one is going to even put up with you never mind go home with you.

We are there to do a job. Not to go home with you. We aren’t your “I fucked a stripper” merit badges. We aren’t just a vagina for you to snatch up for the night. If you can’t go to the club, relax with friends and some pretty women, have some dances, and then call it a night without thinking our bodies are your souvenirs then you have no place in the club at all. We’ve got bills to pay just like you. If you can’t pay us for our work and respect the fact that we ARE at WORK then leave.

Right?? If a guy is spending money on everyone except me I think I would be pretty pissed off. Also if they don’t do a dance with me, there is no way in hell you are getting my number. I go to the club to make money, not to socialize or get picked up. Maybe this would work on some newbie stripper who really has no idea what they are doing, but definitely not someone who knows what they are doing.

39 years old, Born and raised in Cali….Like most men i love a hot women…I’ve got some advise on how to pick up a stripper….Crazy thing here is I didn’t set out with an agenda to have sex with these women but it happened….so believe me when I tell you this

1) Find a girl you vibe with. Rapport will come natural. No matter how you slice and dice it you will enjoy your evening better with a girl you are in rapport with.
– Rapport makes things real
2) The girls are there to work not to find a boyfriend. If your broke I have no advice for you. I would take my time making sure I found the girl I was most attracted to physically and mentally.. In the meantime I’m tipping the girls who are on stage, out of respect. When I find the girl I like, it’s on. Might drop her a $20, might drop her a $100 and tell her it’s just cause I don’t want you to forget about me tonight…
3)Confidence.
-Important part here is don’t brag, be chill. If you are in rapport with the girl the two of you will genuinely want to know more about each other..it’s fun now not just work..
4) Let the women work but you better be the guy who she keeps coming back too, keep buying drinks…you spend a couple hours at this getting drunk building rapport…
5) time to dance….see where that takes you…you should know at this point if she is just working or she is getting turned on…You start making out and guess what, you got a real shot cowboy
6) Phone number is easy, the girl has to eat too…
San Francisco, San Diego, Scottsdale Az & Honolulu Hawaii….4 different cities & ya I got lucky in all of them. The chicks were awesome, tremendouslyfun, sex was fucking off the charts, and I dated the girls from Cali for a while and in Az & Hawaii they ended up like my short term girlfriends.
7) best part these chicks were unbelievably hot and just as fun.
8) feelings got to real one time, i don’t recommend that.
9) food for thought, I’m no scrub and I’m nothing special. Probably been to a strip club 20 times total. Generally your going to pick them up the same way you would in real life

This is the most ridiculous advice and article ever!! I am a stripper ” spend the money in front of her just not on her ” yeah bc when I’m at work I just love nothing more then to watch the customer or in your case customers I am with spend maybe 2 dollars on me tip everyone else .. And waste an hour of my time when I am at my job have a child .. I thought this article was ridiculous ! So I thought I would look in the comments and it would get better.. Wtf!!

Well! I’ll give you real advice that actually works.

We’re gonna look over at the pretentious table of young 3 guys in the corner not tipping and be a little offended that they expect us to dance on stage and do our makeup and hair and walk around in heels for 8 hours for free.

You should leave if youre only at the strip club to look at girls. The whole point is paying them for being there and interacting with you.

Its what you do with that interaction time that counts.

Impress her! Dress nice, smell nice, wear a watch, open up to the one youve been eying. Call her over but ignore other girls.

Shes a person too and she will feel special. You just won yourself some extra time w her a little bit.

Okay if you go into someones workplace where they literally dont get a paycheck and you impose yourself on their time without paying them, youre rude and inconsiderate.

Maybe Im a crazy unicorn strippers but Id never date someone who was rude and inconsiderate….

100% of strippers more likely to hang out with you if you take them to nice places and you’re a gentleman.

If you want a bunch of them to hang out with you, offer them food and massages and alcohol and weed. If you can stay generous and sweet and funny and charming and not creepy or forceful then they will feel SAFE AROUND YOU. And once a couple of them feel safe around you, the rest will follow suit. But you can tell all the girls I know dirty jokes and they think they’re great.

Beleive it or not, there are a lot of clubs Ive been to where the girls like eachother. You would be better off tipping everyone, but tipping your girl you like a little more so she feels special again. Itll be the difference between 1 and 5 dollars and she is more likely to stay with you.

In that time, impress her. Smell good. Compliment her and talk about your backrub skills or something. She’ll want to get in close with you. Dont be rough with her if youre allowed to touch her. She’ll be dying to squirm away from you. Wash your hands by the way. Be clean please.

I know strippers. Theyre like kitties. Be good to them and theyll be good to you. And yeah she’s either attracted to you or she’s not. But also either shes looking for that or shes not. You cant be upset if this article didnt work because shes married or has a boyfriend already and wont go out with you because you thought she liked you….

But anyway, all Im saying is if you want the really good girls then you’re better off standing out to her by asking when she works and being the only one in the place she can relax with and not have anxiety about losing money. Because youre understanding and youre tipping her and youre giving her backrubs. It works. They stay. For free sometimes!

Theyll be disappointed if you waste their time while they’re on the clock though so be careful.

Yes get to know the staff and waitresses and managers and girls.

Just dont be an asshole and ignore her and make her feel like shes ugly thats seriously the rudest thing you can do :) lol

I remember years ago sitting with a guy I thought was cute… and then I went up to dance on stage and he was right there sitting in front of the stage making a dark-sexy grinning eye contact with me. Throwing money on me, showing me how hot he thinks I am and all that ego stroking shit that works on girls.

He was like “man I just want to take you out of here” and he probably could have if he followed up with me like a real guy who has interest in me.

I love when a dude buys me food or drinks. It makes us feel like he wants to take care of us and be sweet and “daddy-esq”

So no, the article is wrong. Spend your money on the girls. Shes got a reason to sit w you if she leaves a glass of wine there. And even if youre not tipping her, if youre talking and drinking with her… if shes one of the classier girls shes gonna try to be courteous and probably try to finish most of/all of the drink with you.

So you have plenty of time to make a good impression.

Talk to her intellectually. Make her think a little if you think shes one of the smarter girls then ask her opinions on things. You can definitely get a girl to vent if you go about it the right way and play your cards right. She’ll perceive you as different from the other guys and like you more if she thinks she can talk to you on a different level. So be sweet and patient.

Im not even kidding. Like if you change the pace for her without being an inconsiderate, cheap asshole, then you’re gonna get a lot farther with the prettier/quality girls because they know what theyre worth and you know theyre spoiled. So they wanna be treated well.

The guys we go back to the most are the guys who are the most understanding and chill about us leaving and making money and are a nice break from strangers for when we come back.

He was right that it’s nice for you to not ask stupid questions.

“Id love to know your real name but I understand how dangerous that is to do in a strip club” works really well to show her you’re that guy she can come escape to. It shows youre interested in her but wont pressure her.

I hope this helps someone get laid or other.

All I know is acting like you arent attracted to me is just gonna make me ignore you for someone who thinks Im smoking hot and pays me and can hold a conversation and acts like hes actually having fun and can make me laugh. Same with countless girls I know. But you can do whatever you want and I wish you luck!!! :)

Lucas is a gentleman because he is British, I live in the UK and most men are like this.

As someone who worked as a stripper for a few years (until that “window” of time ran out) I can verify that Shay speaks the truth. Listen to her!

Ever hear the saying, different strokes with different folks? Anyway, me and my best friend do this very thing in the article every other weekend. Yes, they are there to make money and not every one of the girls will just sit and talk. This works 100% of the time, the 6 places we go to. Does it work on every single one of them? No, but you will get 2 or 3 that night depending on how well you’re doing. All you have to do is not be a creep and be the guy that’s there to have fun and hang out.