That’s why a lot of men nowadays don’t even bother approaching or engaging with women anymore. And they wonder why.

Absolutely. I don’t play games. A woman has to deal with me in a straightforward way or I’m not dealing with them. I expect them talk with me, ask me questions, observe how I act and how I treat people, not engage in mind games and covert psych tests. If this is how they operate, then you’re going to be in for a rough time of it later in a relationship. I guess if getting in a girl’s pants is a guy’s only goal, then maybe they deserve each other – I just hope she doesn’t get pregnant. Any woman who’s worth having in a long-term relationship will value you for being a quality person, not for being a swaggering macho Neanderthal who plays a good game.

yes. She is trying to see if you are needy. It not necessary to text everyday. Wait till she reaches out and when she does, you go “its great to hear from you sweetie, When are you free to get together next? I’d love to see you.” you make the date, get off the phone and wait till the day to see her. by not talking to her, it builds anticipation and more things to talk about.

“I could use your help.”

WAIT FOR RESPONSE!

No response, well, derp, she’s not interested. You didn’t do your job right pre-number. More just makes you needy. You’re gonna see her again at some point, right? WAIT FOR IT.

It may be a lsot cause. You can’t MAKE a girl like you. You can only make her like you more if she already does. Don’t go back for a second helping of rejection. Don’t be a stalker. Maybe she’s just feeling you out. If you don’t chase she will respect you. Why? You haven’t made her respect you. You simply didn’t throw away your respect by being a needy stalker weirdo. If you get the chance in passing give her the “thanks for all your help” sarcasm. Make it not about respoinding, but about not helping you out.

“Are you a player?”
“Yeah, I play football with my bros.” Accompanied by the “did you really jsut say that to me?” look. She should get the message that it’s a stupid question to ask. If not, tell her it’s a stupid question becasue, duh, a player is going to say know, so what’s the point of asking? Notice you’re saying the question is stupid, not her. Emphasize the weight of the question being stupid, and say why it’s stupid. Shows you weren’t born yesterday and that she might have been… If a girl over the age of 21 asks you this, she’s dumb as a rock.

DUDE! If she came after you, she just admitted defeat! Sweet surrender! You showed that you’re a real man who doesn’t tolerate that crap, and she liked you enough to throw out all of it and do soemthing a girl never does; openly admit that you’ve got her hooked with real ACTIONS, not just words. Don’t let her right back in, but let her earn your attention back a little bit at a time. Make her work for the mistake and she won’t do that crap again. She’s admitting that she screwed up already. Don’t be direct about it, they can’t handle that. But, don’t let her out of it right away, either. Let her feel what it’s like. Make it memorable, that you’re willing to walk away. You’re not just another clown that’ll do anything for ass. YOU WALKED AWAY. No matter what the shit test is, you win when you walk away because you’re demonstrating self-respect and an unwillingness to tolerate being treated inappropriately. If it was noticed by others, when you turn your back, have that look on your face like you smell soemthing that stinks, not sad face. You’ll GAIN social proof from a negative encounter by showing that it didn’t hurt, but rather that you’re disgusted by such a terrible human being. You win if she lets you go, becasue a girl who will go that far to treat you like crap in 10 minutes of meeting is not a girl you want treating you like that for the rest of your life. You win if she surrenders and comes after you. There is no lose.