Comments on: How To Boost Your Self Confidence And Develop Bullet-Proof Inner Game

By: Sudeep Saxena

Sudeep Saxena — Sat, 21 Jan 2017 18:58:04 +0000

why is it that guys have to do all the stuff all the time to get a girl? it is tiring to read the sentences like “women love a guy who can do this that, etc”

By: Ron Gego

Ron Gego — Tue, 29 Mar 2016 06:21:21 +0000

May be it is all about deciding what is your life philosophy in general? What is your outlook of life? Do you see it as something dangerous and daunting or something wonderful and full of mystery and great things?
If we see life in a positive way, as a whole, we will be seeing ourselves and others in the same way and then interactions will happen naturally and without any blockages. Learn to see that you are not actually a separate person lost in the woods of human individuals, but are inseparable part of everyone in this life. Just feel it on physical level. You won’t need any advises, tips and techniques when you will get this outlook of life. If you are a brick, you will struggle keeping in the water but if you are a wave, you won’t care about it anymore, because you will be the same part of the whole ocean.

By: Terence

Terence — Tue, 30 Dec 2014 00:40:12 +0000

The most important thing I realised is to give jack shit what people think about you. But this only really works once you know where you are going in life to At the same time still stay well groomed and dressed to boost self esteem

By: Eric

Eric — Sun, 02 Jun 2013 02:17:44 +0000

In reply to Ethan.

This one is easy to answer. As a dude who’s around the same age as you I can confidently say you can get with beautiful girls without saying more than a few words. You don’t constantly need to be talking, although most feel that they do since silence makes them feel uncomfortable. If you appear confident you can be a quiet guy without it seeming like a flaw. It makes you more mysterious, and when you speak you’re words are given more attention and respect.

To talk to women, or anyone for that matter, all you have to do is ask questions. People love talking about themselves, and unless they have a real interest in you chances are they are just waiting for their turn to speak the whole time you’re talking. So just keep asking properly placed questions and listen and adress certain points when needed.

By: Ethan

Ethan — Sun, 10 Feb 2013 00:08:20 +0000

Hy guys…Im a guy who is uncomfortable around girls and often don’t know what to say when I’m around them.I’m also afraid on aproaching them as I fear I may be rejected or I may run out of things to say.If it happens that I’ll get a date with a girl I don’t have an idea of what we’re going to talk about in our relatiionship.Please help me guys I am now 20 years old and have no girlfriend.

By: Alex

Alex — Sun, 23 Dec 2012 08:18:25 +0000

Dude, you should write for AskMen. They’ve been trying to explain what you outlined in one article for years!
Keep up the remarkable work.

By: John

John — Sat, 22 Dec 2012 10:06:24 +0000

Quit masturbating about the wimen you see everyday and actually do something to seduce them. Even if all you can do is take small steps.

Field tested (y)

By: Tim

Tim — Sat, 22 Dec 2012 01:35:38 +0000

Awesome article! It really helped a lot! Overcoming those issues really boosted my life! I’m playing in a band and we had a gig last week all thanks to this confidence article. Normally we would never accept a gig cuz we weren’t ready or all those other excuses but last time we accepted to just roll with it and it ruled! We had an amazing performance and met a lot of new people! The tip that helped me the most was complementing girls on the street. It really boosted and juiced my confidence!
Greetings,
Tim

By: Bella

Bella — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 01:33:37 +0000

Yes I’m a woman, I used to have insane confidence issues BUT overcame my fear of rejection by detaching myself from it. For example thinking when speaking to people who would act disinterested, rather than take it personally I’d think; ‘ah, that’s a shame they were so rude…I wonder what issues they’re having in life right now to make them so upset’ – as opposed to ‘oh they rejected me, it must be because I’m not good enough’.
Sometimes people are just having a s**t day and really can’t be bothered no matter how hot you are.

By: PUA Training

PUA Training — Mon, 04 Jun 2012 10:54:09 +0000

In reply to Brandon. Thanks Brandon! That's a great way of thinking about confidence, the more competent you are the less chance you have of being scared because you actually know what you;re doing.