Comments on: Great Questions for a First Date

By: PUA Training

PUA Training — Tue, 12 Jun 2012 10:35:37 +0000

In reply to James Francis. Every girl is different, but for the most part 9's and 10's are and can be highly selective because they are so in demand by a lot of guys. Having said that, they are usually the most insecure, which is why they don't go for guys that could be hotter than them. Gives us normal guys a chance!

By: James Francis

James Francis — Fri, 08 Jun 2012 00:21:37 +0000

In reply to Michael mcewen. I could not agree with you more. I wonder if its because guys are more insecure about talking to the tens? Or is it that the tens kinda know they are tens and are more selective. Maybe a combination. I knew a ten who wouldn't go out with anyone. Till she found her "perfect match" and two months later they were engaged. haha

By: Michael mcewen

Michael mcewen — Tue, 15 May 2012 12:03:47 +0000

Nice article. Only flaw is the idea that most beautiful women have been on hundreds of first dates. Let me break this down for you:

1) beautiful women do not go on more dates than less attractive women
2) the 9s and 10s get hit on less than the 7s and 8s
3) yes. If you are on a date and she has attraction for you she does want to answer them.

By: Larry

Larry — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 06:01:27 +0000

I like to ask chicks… How do you feel about ass licking? answer… Because I dont care how many drinks you buy me, I'm not gonna lick your ass!

Then I tell a story about one of my dirty asslicking friends.

It is pretty funny… Especially when the girl expects cookie cutter questions because you just met her

By: The Bloodhound

The Bloodhound — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 14:20:18 +0000

"The complete book of questions" by Garry Poole.

1001 great conversation starters.

Memorize a few of them before you go out or scribble them down.

Works for me!

By: UHF

UHF — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 11:11:25 +0000

Great! They're all in your excellent book too.

By: Ethan

Ethan — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 21:22:06 +0000

Good questions, but I'd always try to stay clear of making it sound like you're conducting a survey/interview/test. You might want to add why you're asking it, you can give your answer to the question to share the dialogue. Thus if you ask about her first day at school, she's likely to want to know about yours, make sure you throw something comical in there.

I'm currently living in Asia and I find that a lot of girls here don't have fond memories of their childhood or they don't wish to speak about it unlike their western counterparts. I, myself, only ever get asked the same old boring questions from ladies like what do I do, how long have I lived here, why do I live here. They're just trying to check my financial status and my stability, if they want to date me is it likely that I'll just leave the country in a few months? haha.

I think along with the questions, you might want to use some personality readings such as The Cube or the Ring routine, do the 5 questions game to (I've used them often and I've hardly ever had them fail) or do some mind reading tricks (the number games), they just make the conversation a lot more interesting, they enjoy it, because which girl doesn't like to know more about herself.

By: Marcio

Marcio — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 23:42:02 +0000

Splendid article!!
I had trouble with conversation and asking questions
and this seems really logical
like it ACCUALLY MAKES SENSE!!!
but I have a question what
other elements a challeging questions includes?
and right now I have trouble with being dominant
like many guys are trying to spit game with the same girl I want to spit game to and like i back down
and I am tired of doing that
what can I do?

By: x

Thu, 23 Apr 2009 04:26:38 +0000

The pinciples mentioned rock: original, bring an old memory, be uplifting, challenging.

I remember being on a date and I asked the girl a question to which she clicked and gave me a really long, and frankly boring and naive, reply. This surprised me and I kinda went off her, but i realise now I had found a way to open her up. I've included the question in the following list.

Here are a few more questions folks:
– What are the three most embarassing things that have happenned to you?
– What was the best day in your life?
– What is your favourite position [use this one with care!]

Well, that's enuff. Cant give away all my secrets… ;)

By: Ben

Ben — Wed, 22 Apr 2009 01:45:22 +0000

haha… wow, wish i would have had some of these in mind a week ago… had a date with an hb and the usual word vomit cookie cutter bullshit came out… needless to say, not to sure about a second date. Anyways, good stuff… Have you guys ever heard of socratic conversation?