Get your tongue ready fellas.
Today, we’re going to get down and dirty… that’s right kids, I’m going to be sharing some damn good oral sex tips for men, that I believe EVERY guy should be using.
For those of you who don’t like going down on women (shame on you) look away now.
Before I get into the “how-to’s” I want to make one thing very clear:
Don’t do it like the pornstars!
The worst thing you can do is take advice from porn. Not only are they doing it wrong, but they’re actually doing it wrong on purpose so the cameras can film the action.
Seriously, it’s called “milking it”.
NOTE: If you want to give oral sex like a pro, I would highly recommend you check out this video which explains exactly how to make women orgasm on demand.
One more quick thing, you need to make sure you reinforce positive comments: Some women will be self conscious, so you must let her know you love going down on her and that she tastes really good.
Ok, let’s get started on the details of how to suck pussy.
How to go down on her
1. Take your time
Don’t just go straight for the clit like most guys do, it’s a little too eager and doesn’t have any element of sexual tension which as you know is key to making her orgasm in more ways than one.
Begin by kissing lightly and licking all around the pussy, spend a few minutes doing this until she is squirming for you to go further.
2. Lick just beneath the clit
After kissing and licking around the vagina, you then need to begin softly and slowly licking the area just beneath her clit (use both hands to spread her vagina lips).
This area is very sensitive, you can also lick all the way up from the base of the pussy to the top, but being careful not to touch the clit just yet.
3. Stimulate the clit
Continue by sucking on her clit in a gentle way, your mouth movements should just like you’re half way through biting an apple and you’re trying to save the juices from running down your chin (sounds silly, but it works).
Another way to describe how your tongue and mouth should look is (mouth = slightly open) and (tongue = making a half pipe shape). Your entire mouth should be covering her clit.
Make up, down and sideways movements with your tongue whilst your mouth is fully covering the clit.
Kick it up a notch by groaning a little, this will do two things (1) make her think that you’re really enjoying eating her out and (2) give her a vibrating sensation on her clit which will maximise the pleasure.
4. Linger that finger
By now she should have orgasmed, if she hasn’t then don’t worry she’ll be very close. The next thing you can do is use your finger to simulate penetration. What most guys will do is just straight up finger the girl, you don’t want to do this.
You need to take your index finger, insert it into her vagina and rest it on the base of the vagina, no moving back and forth, just leave it there. This will make it feel as though she’s getting f*cked.
If you want, you can use the g-spot fingering technique that will give her a squirting orgasm.
Butt or no butt?
Some guys will be grossed out by licking a girls butt, so for all the adventurous guys out there who really want to please their woman… a little butt licking will feel awesome to the girl, so it’s always an option. She might not actually like it either so check first.
Definitely don’t do any of these…
- Bite her clit – Unless she specifically says “Please bite my clit” don’t do it. Remember that the clitorious is incredibly sensitive and biting it will be very painful for her.
- Flick her clit – Either with your tongue or fingers. This will both feel uncomfortable and very sensitive.
- Go to fast – Dude, you need to take your time with this. The longer the better, she will tell you when she’s had enough.
- Stick your tongue in – Another no no most guys make is by putting their tongue all the way in the vagina and licking her aggressively, this is both not sexy and not enjoyable for her.
So that’s it dude. Some killer oral sex tips for men given to me by some of the best in the business. Click here to learn more.
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My girl loves when I lick it fast the faster I go the more she squirts and she loves when I put my toung in her pussy and lick the inside edges of her pussy in a clock wise motion works every time for me ;)
I love it when guys bite!! I don’t like anything to do with my ass, but when they softly bite around my clit then bite and pull on my clit, that makes me cum so hard. Just saying, I love biting and tongue fucking
Thing to bear in mind is you have to take it slow. Don’t jump right in between her legs and start the dining the moment she displays the buffet before you. You have to understand that it takes time to heat up a woman and she would appreciate it if you will take time to romance her, kiss her and caress her all over before finally going down to the main course. She should already be hot with your kisses and caresses, before you start on giving her oral sex. By this time, she would be very wet and ready for the main course of the buffet she’s offering you.
Well I must be the luckiest man be in love with the woman for the last eight years to give oral to. When I was married, she liked oral but it was limited to just traditional licking.
She loves to have me totally suck her entire pussy into my month and suck hard on her clit while licking it. She loves aggressive finger stroking her g spot while I lick and suck her.
And the biggie is. She loves me to tongue fuck her. And yes ladies and gentleman. I can reach her spot with my tongue. She can orgasm from this. It is like the inside of her swells up and falls down enough for me to reach her.
She is highly orgasmic and can come from every form that can be performed. She even can cum from rimming her butt.
The best is when she starts moving on my face and tongue when she gets close. And she is ohh so wet.
Yeah i am surprised with the the whole not Flicking her clit? yes sure with fingers it may well hurt her but i always use my tongue id say %98 loved it and again the same thing with sticking your tongue inside her cant think of any girls who didn’t enjoy it.
I also learned that while your sliding your tongue up her incredibly hot Butthole, try rubbing the clitoris lightly and fingering the scrumpt dili umptious Pussy! It works almost every time at allowing you to penetrate their anus to the fullest extent of Sodomy!
You just can’t expect to pull her pants down, bend her over and shove your dick all the way up her Butthole! This is very wrong as well as selfish my fellow pervs!
Why not tongue in the pussy? I love when guys do it.
I always put my tongue in the pussy its great feeling for girls and they think that they are in heaven……….I want to give my tounge in your pussy
I agree with Scott. I’ve had girls that want my tongue deep inside. It drives them crazy. Also, fast isn’t a bad thing, depends on the girl I’d say. One of the girls I’m seeing squirts all over my face when I lick her clit fast.
What’s wrong with sticking your tongue in. I had a girl bounce on my face riding my tongue like she was riding a dick. It was awesome.
Another great read.
I can’t believe you had to put “Don’t bite the clit.” LOL!
This Jason Julius dude is a climax god. His tips change life perspectives and make life magical.