Since a week ago she has been trying to get to me, whether by commenting on something from facebook, a book I’m reading or something else on a group interaction. I really like her (in spite of having been with another girl from my course until recently, which I now see as a mistake and realize I haven’t moved on at all from this first girl). But I’m a bit retracted, because of how she said she felt the first time. And even though she’s trying to get to me I can’t help but wonder if she’s trying to do it just for us to be cool with each other again and end the awkwardness.

What do you think? I would risk it if it were any other situation, but the thing is we will be in the course together for the next year and a half (assuming we both reach the end of it) and I don’t want it to be even more awkward than it has already been.

I honestly don’t even know why I like her. She’s not hot, actually she’s a bit skinny, but pretty. She’s intelligent, has sense of humor, cool personality. I’m just heartbroken with the possibility of her trying to get close to me again just to end the awkwardness and nothing else.

Can you help me with this? With the second girl I was totally cool with, she even was the one who approached me. But with the first girl it’s just the opposite.